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Good Life: Zanzibar

"An alpha female traveling alone always finds people who want to take care of her"---Anonymous By Guest Blogger Amyrae I’ve found that the most gratifying way to experience culture while traveling, is to do it through the eyes of the...

The Maldives: Exclusive Luxury

Lately, I've been having a fixation with Southeast Asia, with dreams of being some place where nobody knows your name. When I think of The Maldives I think of exclusive elegance, class and the beach. I think of going someplace...

How To “Complete” The Incomplete

What better time of year to write about beginnings, Spring. Recently, I noticed some things I was doing that seemed “hard”. I felt like I was swimming upstream.  There were delays.  But I finally let it all go.  One morning,...

ADVICE: Me, Myself, and I…But I Don’t!

I moved to NYC about a year ago from Atlanta, and I am so frustrated that this city is so dead. I have no friends, can’t meet any, and I am tired of going out alone. I go out and...

If You’re Single And Still Finding Yourself…Part II

There’s this insanity lately that you have to be perfected and mended up emotionally before you can meet someone.  If you’re a bad person, you’ll attract a bad person. Yada yada.  This is driving so many people to just well,...

Vintage: Navigating Dangerous Waters

Over the last several months we’ve been discussing how to go about things to get the best results.  However, what about when things go wrong? Especially in the matters of dealing with other women and/or obstacles that stand in our...

Married Women Make the Best Girlfriends

By Guest Blogger, Damien L. Miles Ever wondered why women already in relationships get more attention than single women? Let me explain.  It's that smell.  See, a single chick doesn't have a lot of sex contrary to popular belief.  She's...

Be A Woman At Work, And A Lady At Home

By Guest Blogger, Mumphlett An alphanista knows how to mix the old with the new... He’s my man and I love him. But, it’s been a while since we’ve done anything. And when I say anything … I mean anything...

Weekend Rewind: There’s Only Room For One Alpha….

An oldie but goodie, as you mingle among yourselves this weekend, enjoy! Advice I discovered your blog this morning while on my one of favorite sites - Crunk and Disorderly. Thank you for Alphanista! I have enjoyed reading it.  Your commentary...

ADVICE: I Let My Man Go, To Keep Him

Me and my man are not like the couples we know.  It’s different what we have.  He’s very handsome and me, I’m pretty damn attractive too.  When we got together it was sex on the first date.  We didn’t even leave...