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Tea

Be A Woman At Work, And A Lady At Home


By Guest Blogger, Mumphlett An alphanista knows how to mix the old with the new… He’s my man and I love him. But, it’s been a while since we’ve done anything. And when I say anything … I mean anything together.  And when I say together, I mean where both of us got something out […]

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Tea

Weekend Rewind: There’s Only Room For One Alpha….


An oldie but goodie, as you mingle among yourselves this weekend, enjoy! Advice I discovered your blog this morning while on my one of favorite sites – Crunk and Disorderly. Thank you for Alphanista! I have enjoyed reading it.  Your commentary on alpha females has put into many things I knew about myself into perspective, but […]

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Tea

ADVICE: I Let My Man Go, To Keep Him


Me and my man are not like the couples we know.  It’s different what we have.  He’s very handsome and me, I’m pretty damn attractive too.  When we got together it was sex on the first date.  We didn’t even leave the restaurant!  That was 5 years ago.  Still strong still in love.  But before we […]

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Tea

Weekend Rewind: Any Man Without A R-ing Is Ripe For The Pick-ing


(This is an oldie, but goodie that got lots of attention. Sometimes the truth hurts.  In a neat, tidy world everything would be cut and dry, but below is about when it isn’t and you have to do with the real. New posts Monday.  Enjoy!) A glass of reality can taste pretty bad.  On a […]

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Tea

ADVICE: I Want My Ex Back For Good


I would first off like to thank you for your continued insight…I am so addicted to reading this website… I definitely consider myself to be alpha female, but over the past few years I’ve been feeling quite, unalpha-female ish. I am desperately in love with my ex boyfriend.  I am a confident, intelligent beautiful young […]

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Tea

ADVICE: Dating Just To Date Is Just Dumb


Lately, I’ve been going on dates, but not with the same men.  I mean, it’s like a different guy every few weeks or months.  The dates end well and there’s no drama.  But I always feel empty afterwards. I don’t feel no connection with any of them. It’s fun on the date, I guess, but […]

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Career

The Simple Way To Brand Yourself


This is a great way to start a new month. Getting out in the world! An alpha female is unforgettable and almost always noticeable.  Not in a loud way, but in a deliberate way.   What are you saying when you walk into a room? The objective is to be distinctive, and yet mysterious.  You can […]

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Tea

Let Him Go, So He Can Stay


Where do I begin with this one?  I spent the weekend coming across one trifling conversation to another about how one woman is trying to hold her man by doing these things: buying a pole for the bedroom, starving herself, taking lap dances classes, and currently researching a job as a “web cam girl” to spice […]

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Career

Magnetic Communication Skills Part II


Do you know there’s more than one way to seduce? Seduction is usually characterized as nonverbal communication.  Taking someone’s clothes off, making them desire you, and catching them off guard.  But seduction is not always about sex.  It is about communicating to get your way, even at work, or to crash a party.  Businesses and […]

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