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Tea

Weekend Rewind: Any Man Without A R-ing Is Ripe For The Pick-ing


(This is an oldie, but goodie that got lots of attention. Sometimes the truth hurts.  In a neat, tidy world everything would be cut and dry, but below is about when it isn’t and you have to do with the real. New posts Monday.  Enjoy!) A glass of reality can taste pretty bad.  On a […]

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Tea

ADVICE: I Want My Ex Back For Good


I would first off like to thank you for your continued insight…I am so addicted to reading this website… I definitely consider myself to be alpha female, but over the past few years I’ve been feeling quite, unalpha-female ish. I am desperately in love with my ex boyfriend.  I am a confident, intelligent beautiful young […]

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Tea

ADVICE: Dating Just To Date Is Just Dumb


Lately, I’ve been going on dates, but not with the same men.  I mean, it’s like a different guy every few weeks or months.  The dates end well and there’s no drama.  But I always feel empty afterwards. I don’t feel no connection with any of them. It’s fun on the date, I guess, but […]

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Career

The Simple Way To Brand Yourself


This is a great way to start a new month. Getting out in the world! An alpha female is unforgettable and almost always noticeable.  Not in a loud way, but in a deliberate way.   What are you saying when you walk into a room? The objective is to be distinctive, and yet mysterious.  You can […]

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Tea

Let Him Go, So He Can Stay


Where do I begin with this one?  I spent the weekend coming across one trifling conversation to another about how one woman is trying to hold her man by doing these things: buying a pole for the bedroom, starving herself, taking lap dances classes, and currently researching a job as a “web cam girl” to spice […]

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Career

Magnetic Communication Skills Part II


Do you know there’s more than one way to seduce? Seduction is usually characterized as nonverbal communication.  Taking someone’s clothes off, making them desire you, and catching them off guard.  But seduction is not always about sex.  It is about communicating to get your way, even at work, or to crash a party.  Businesses and […]

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Career

How To Be An Alpha Female: The Power Breakfast


Have you taken a look at your life lately? Look now.  There’s something missing.  You have the same degree, personal qualities, professional experience as the next girl but you are the one earning less money, going home alone, and haven’t had a breakthrough in your career or personal life in years.   There’s a reason […]

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Career

Make Lemonade Out Of Occupational Lemons


By Guest Wendy Coakley-Thompson Some time ago, I wrote Five Alphanista Things to Do When You Get Laid Off. The first comment I received on the piece came from The Hooker Chronicles, who said she tells people sensing a layoff to start their own businesses. According to Chronicles, “In the age of the Internet and […]

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Career

Career Clinic: Ready To Shine and Get Mine But…


Q.  I have been in the entertainment business since I was 24. I always seem to miss the boat on some big opportunity at being the singing star I know I can be.  I get cut from auditions early, and I seem to miss a deadline by a day or two.  I finally got a […]

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