Tip 3: How To Be An Alpha Female

Tip 3-Be comfortable being alone.  Alpha females are usually cave dwellers, but have a “clique” or a pack when ready, they truly blossom when with their complementary half, an alpha male.

There are two kinds of alpha-females: those who have friends and those who don’t.  What they have in common is, when she’s ready for friends she can gather up the troops. She may lay low for months at a time, but a friend or wing-girl is just a phone call away. 

Being an alpha female with friends is tricky business.  Most women (the betas) do not like alpha females, nor do they want to be alpha females.  The reason for this is that most women want to be liked. 

Alpha females could really care less about this.  They just want to win.  They focus very little on what’s right or wrong, or how this is done, or how that is said. 

The clincher is many women do admire the alpha female from afar.  They admire her spunk and carefree ways.  They secretly desire to be as bold and confident as she is.  But being around her may be a reminder of what they lack. 

Moreoever, alpha females feel being around “civilian” ladies is too much of a drain.  The indecision, the emotional wreckless outburts over a man.  She just doesn’t have the time. 

But when it comes to her alpha male counterpart, she is all ears.  He keeps the steam in her tea kettle.  In the meantime, she finds community in her beta females, who admire her and who she can lead.

Every woman could use a dose of this, learning how to be alone, but learning your role in the group.  A true leader knows how to get people on their side, whether they need them or not.  Just saying….

Originally posted 2019-10-21 06:00:22.