6 Types of Relationships You Need In Your Life

You are what you eat. You are who you know.  There are friends and then there are “relationships” that are negotiable. These relationships typically start as a give/take, which can be beneficial for both parties.  If you are at a certain level, you would have already met at least 3 people in the list below.

In everyone’s circle there should be at least one of each:

1. Someone who can give you something–money, contacts, power

2. Someone who can influence someone else in your favor for that right job, situation, home, promotion, etc

3. Someone who can provide a solution to a crisis that can save your name and interests

4. Someone who can enhance your credibility such as when they are with you, you shine twice as bright

5. Someone who can motivate and redirect you through the proper words or spiritual guidance

6. Someone who can vouch for your honor and get you out of trouble

They shouldn’t be anyone in your family, but new people.  If you are lacking in any of these relationships you are stagnant.  It’s a perfect opportunity to fill in that gap–now.  Dare to raise the bar.  Scare yourself a little.  Reach out to that person you met at the networking event months ago.   Who cares if they don’t remember you.  Make them.

The list above is just a starting point.  There’s more.  But all of them are so valuable, no amount of money can be placed on it.  These are relationships cultivated in college, at specific companies, through family relationships, community connections, professional events, and just sheer luck.

Unfortunately, many people are afraid to connect with others for fear of being seen and heard.  They don’t want people to know who they really are and that perhaps they don’t have the cache to roll with them.  Ever heard of fake it till you make it?

If you missed the Ivy League to get a head start, you can simply read or find conferences and events in your area that cater to your goals.

You need relationships, not just the ones to keep you warm at night.

Originally posted 2019-08-06 06:00:25.