On the Other Line: Your Feminine Side Is Calling

You are either so used to being single or at your hi-powered job for so long, that you forgot to be “a girl”.

If you have been single for some time,  you may tend to want to control everything–the time someone picks you up, where they take you to eat, what they wear, what they say, how they think, and what they say. Even if you think you are helping the other person, it is still too much masculine energy that you are projecting.  People may respond to you by being defensive or just turned off.  That’s typically a huge sign.

If at work, you want to argue over things that don’t go your way or stir gossip,your masculine energy has gone amuck.

Masculine and feminine energy work together to balance temperament, hormone levels, energy, and let’s face it, your sanity. Too much of the other equals drama. Pretty hair and nails is not enough to be feminine, there’s more. The tips below help ignite your feminine side and use the power you already have.

The times next to each suggestion lets you choose what may work for your schedule.  All you need is one to start. Now go do something.

2 Hours

1) Take more time every day to share in non-goal oriented ways about the problems of the day, like having lunch with or talking to someone who does not have the answer to your problems.

1 Hour

2) Get a massage or some kind of nurturing body work to keep your body lithe and flexible.

Anytime

3) Never miss an chance to let a man carry a box or open a door for you.

10 Minutes

4) Make regular time for meditation, prayer, exercise, journal writing, etc.

Anytime

5) Vary your routes from work or school to avoid the efficiency of getting home the same way (this also helps with control issues)

Originally posted 2018-02-08 08:00:46.