Bill & Hil During More Carefree Times
This is an oldie but goodie! These two are another alpha-alpha relationship, but with a twist. Enjoy!
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The alpha female needs her alpha male counterpart.
Unlike what most people think a dominant alpha female can be with a dominant alpha male. The alpha male is dominant over all. He chooses to share his reign of the kingdom with his alpha female. They both play a role so to speak. Like the wolves do. The alpha female wolves dominate the other males and females, while the alpha male is away, and when he returns, they divvy up their roles. She is very much the woman, the female to him. She respects the alpha male’s prowess and dominion.
However, don’t get all excited, because alpha males are virtually extinct among us humans. There are very few authentic ones left, but I’m going to marry one. Simply because they are the only men that I feel stimulated and inspired by. They just don’t sit by for one of my great ideas to pop up, but we make it happen together. Oftentimes, he makes it happen by bringing all the ingredients to the table, and I stir the pot.
But why Bill? Here’s a man who is the quintessential alpha male. If there was a committee of alpha men, he’d be the chairperson. I mean you really got to be following his whole history to get what I mean. You have to have read Hillary’s autobiography and interviews on the two of them. I know, most women would say “hell, no” to Bill, but I ain’t most women, which you should know by now 
Yes, I know Obama and Michelle are the best thing since banana waffles, but I need to see them over the next four years. With Bill and Hil there’s already a history there and a track record. Bill is the type of husband most alpha females need. Here’s why:
1. He wasn’t intimidated by his alpha female wife wanting his job, the most popular job on the planet with the fewest applicants, President of the United States. Most men would have stayed up all night wondering if she’d do better than him, or plotting ways to dissuade her from the possible upstage. Who knows what really happened before she came to her decision. But I think ole Bill played the pimp move and put her out on the streets like “go get it for daddy”. It was their plot to take over the world. I could do that with my man. But not running for president. I can’t do the whole crowds thing.
2. He’s not afraid of guidance. He’s an alpha male prone to self destruction because he likes sex—with women other than his wife. The cover of marriage is good for alpha males with this vice because it keeps him grounded and focused on the big picture. Bill has always been a hard dog to keep on the porch who obviously listens to Hil when she calls him back from the yard.
3. He’s always reaching for more and protective of his own. He’s not a man who can just sail away like many presidents do. The alpha in him won’t stop. He likes status, the spotlight, and has Hil’s back. He’s lashed out at a few reporters who had something slick to say about his wife and unlike some people, didn’t give any worn out apology the next morning in most cases.
4. Bill and Hil are the ultimate power couple, Bonnie & Clyde, Batman and Robin. When I read Hil’s autobio, Living History (because I wanted to learn more about this alpha couple), she said she wrote him a few letters when they were in their early dating phase, right before they got married. They basically said how he was acting up again, that he was destined for greatness and needs to get it together and be with her. It wasn’t a pleading, sick love letter, but one that said, “get your ass on the train and let’s get this money, this power, this life, this dream.”
5. Bill is great with words. Who can ever forget when he was on the stand defending himself against the Lewinsky fiasco and asked the prosecutor, “It depends what the definition of is is?” Pimp style again. I can even see the bottom chick getting back handed after that.
6. Bill is just as fallible as anyone else. As brilliant as he is, he made mistakes. I respect how Bill and Hil got over that big mistake the right way. It seems that their relationship was not the same after that, but they kept it together. Just imagine if they divorced. It would’ve hurt Bill more and cost him some brownie points in the media world and Hil didn’t want to see that. I mean, who else would Bill marry? I can’t see him with anyone else. How can you be a power couple, when the other half is dead? It would have totally defeated their purpose in life. You know you have more than a man, more than a husband, when you can’t possibly see another man who can fill his shoes. It’s more than love, when a man has a presence, he becomes almost phantom like in your existence, always haunting you and any other man who dares to come after.
That is why many women, not all, with prominent famous men (Malcolm X, Martin Luther King, Jr., Medgar Evers, etc) never remarry. When you have that, you have more than a marriage, but a common life path. Plus, Hil knew what kind of man she had in Bill since their college days and his penchant for women, every woman knows her man’s “cheater meter”. She handled it like a Big Girl.
Finally, I’d marry Bill because he’s a stand-by-your-woman alpha male. I can see him and Hil cussing each other up and down that house at nights, spit foaming at the mouth, Chelsea standing in between. Then after it all simmers down, turn to each other with a wink and say, “Boy, you were good tonight. Your debating skills are getting better by the minute.”
I like that.
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I would marry Bill because I think he is cute, but now that you mention it LOL he is an alpha male. I really admire this couple, they have the ability to look past human flaws and see the big picture.A man who has learned to share the spotlight is the very strong man. Oh and boy does Bill fight for his woman. He has really been there for Hillary, just like she has been there fore him.
As for #2 An electric dog collar may solve one half of the problem. The second half of the problem can be solved by putting up an intruder alert within arms length of the porch. LOL Stray dogs are always trying to come up to the porch and no more than just bark a hello.
I agree with Trish. Too often you get these faux-alpha males who don’t know the first thing about how to love a strong woman. Maybe one day I will find my Billy C and we will rule the world. We’ll have to bump off Bill and Hil and Barack and Michelle first
No u didn’t…LMFAO…This made burst out laughing in the office.
“Finally, I’d marry Bill because he’s a stand-by-your-woman alpha male. I can see him and Hil cussing each other up and down that house at nights, spit foaming at the mouth, Chelsea standing in between. Then after it all simmers down, turn to each other with a wink and say, “Boy, you were good tonight. Your debating skills are getting better by the minute.””
This is how my man and me operate. I had my eye on him for a while in the papers. I found out his contact info and reached out on a professional note. I knew when he saw me I wouldnt have to do anymore work. If you’re an alpha female you shouldnt wait for this kind of man to appear, you need to put yourself in the “circle.” Hoping to see a blog about that.
Yes you all above me proved great points but where are all the men that are like Bill on a island somewhere tied up hiding? Or are they on the DL? LOL, that is true a lot of men do get intimidated by a woman who isn’t taking any crap. A real man let’s you get your shine on and makes sure you stay on top. A lot of immature men want a woman that will submit to anything they say and settle for anything that they are willing to bring to the table. Not I! I know I’ve had my slip ups but don’t we all!? I need someone ambitious, strong, powerful, wise, good with their hands, eyes, and ears, makes some damn good money, not full of all that drama, uplifting..someone who won’t put me down because of their own insecurity issues. There’s a lot of those out their and they’re pretty slick with it..
Maryann,
Yes there are lots of haters out there! Getting back to one of your points number 1. The Alpha Male who isn’t intimidated. I believe that there are two types of Alpha males; the ones who reconginize that strong men require a strong women and then there are those whose ego couldn’t posssibly tolerate an Alpha Female. They have been taught beta women are the way to go for them. They are raised to believe that in order for them to shine they need a women who will take a more subserviant role.
I believe that a true Alpha Male one who has reached the heights that Bill Clinton has recognizes the need for a strong ALpha female. He knows the benefits of having a woman who has his back. He revels in the intellectual foreplay that his woman gives him. He thinks that her sharp tongue and quick wit are one of the most sexiest things on the planet.
A truly great Alpha male is stimulated emotionally and physically by his Alpha female and he isn’t afraid for others to know it.
@Robin, yes, that’s another point I wanted to make, two alphas together are too much to bare. The hate makes sense. LOL
I have to say that I really enjoyed this post! My fellow Alpha female friends and I LOVE Bill Clinton and all of us worked really hard for Senator Clinton in the primaries.
I have often said that I think Bill is gangsta. I didn’t see what all the fuss was about in the primaries when he came to Hillary’s defense. He was suppossed to defend her she is his and he is hers.
All the points that you laid out as to why their relationship works are ones that my friends and I have discussed numerous times.
I have had the honor of meeting President Clinton a few times and I can tell you that he is the only man that has left me speechless and that is not an easy thing to do since I always have something to say.
Hliiary is a very intelligent and capable woman who knows exactly who Bill is and loves him in spite of it all and if she can do that, people should just mind their own and stop hating on them.
People can’t stand Alpha’s so it is no wonder that they hate on the Clinton’s non stop I mean two Aplhas in one couple almost to much to bear.
Thanks for the article!
You make some great points here – and the one point that I’m vibin with right now is that a true Alpha Male is not intimidated by an Alpha Female. There are a lot of men out here who front they are that A-Male and may have some A-Male tendencies but when presented with a true A-Female, eventually show their fear. A-Females (or aspiring A-Females) need to keep that in mind. An Alpha Male will not only let you shine, but he will help you shine brighter!
I totally get what you are saying I do not know all the details of their relationship but these two been thru alot of drama I would\’ve bailed out long ago. I want this 2 but its alot of work and not that many men are THAT ambitious. If he was Id be scared