Comments on: Why A Mistress? Reading Between The Lines

By: Loving a bottom B

Loving a bottom B — Sun, 14 Dec 2008 03:21:06 +0000

Where are the men to speak on this issue? I keep hearing the same thing. Marriage itself and other things that take up time away from pleasing the man leads to the mistress. Why hate her? For every happy marriage their is a mistress and I can point to a few. I don’t agree with it but its a part of the game.

By: BallerAlert

BallerAlert — Tue, 09 Dec 2008 14:10:01 +0000

You have to post this on BallerAlert…LOL
You have been neglecting us.
Congrats on your blog by the way!

By: Kenya

Kenya — Mon, 08 Dec 2008 20:27:32 +0000

I’ve seen a lot of it, and I never see any good. Never.

By: Cipher

Cipher — Mon, 08 Dec 2008 17:23:04 +0000

Can’t get down with it. I am the alpha and the omega and a guy doesn’t get that, then he’s fired and I hire someone who does get it. There are plenty of chicks out there who like to be disrespected because they don’t know any better and if the average guy gets down with mistresses he can find an average female. I guess I’m extraordinary and as such I require an extraordinary partner.

By: Leah Mullen

Leah Mullen — Mon, 08 Dec 2008 16:48:06 +0000

@Pashin. LOL. If I were ever expected to approve of a mistress type situation, I’d want to see some results. Straight up. Not just help with the children as in baby sitting, I’d want someone who could tutor them in Calculus, Spanish, French AND does windows. LOL. And what mistress would go for that?! lolol. My guess is that she’d want to be the pampered Queen B and there is only one Queen B around here. I guess I’d make a better co-wife than tolerator of a mistress. But even with the co-wife situation I see so many complications and problems. Whew!

By: MissOMyGoodnezz

MissOMyGoodnezz — Mon, 08 Dec 2008 16:32:00 +0000

I love this post! It was great! I actually did a similar post on my myspace blog. Good stuff.

By: Pashin

Pashin — Mon, 08 Dec 2008 15:55:28 +0000

@Leah someone who can help with the kids too LOL, they can call her auntie, i am not threatened by other women my husband and I are a cosmic union unbreakable.

By: Leah Mullen

Leah Mullen — Mon, 08 Dec 2008 15:45:25 +0000

Like Joyce Vedral said, if a man is unfaithful, the wife should go to him and say she wants the same opportunities, if he says no, then “Get Rid of Him,” which is the title of her book BTW.

Should the man approve of his wife having a “lover” then the marriage is open and it’s a whole different ball game.

But back to the subject, can a mistress help a marriage? The only way I can see that happening–for me–is if she were to clean our apartment twice weekly (do windows too) and help all of us with all of the administrative details of running our household (goceries, laundry, tutoring and lessons for children etc, etc)–and she should contribute monitarily to–I mean if she’s there to “help” us out, if she is doing us a favor then why not? If not then to me a mistress for my husband is completely useless. LOL.

Seriously, to me it seems that the mistress just takes, takes and takes from a household–irreplaceable time and energy–and gives nothing back. I don’t approve.