Comments on: When You’re A Bad Girl…

By: CB

CB — Thu, 29 Oct 2009 17:19:52 +0000

I luv this post!

I’m still trying to find that balance of bad and good and it’s tough. I’ve been good all my life and I’ve been unhappy for a very long time as a result. Not saying I can’t be aggressive when necessary, but I’m sick of apologizing for stepping “out of character” when I do something that makes me happy, yet shocks my friends and family. I don’t want to change too much of the good in me, but I can definitely say I want my edginess to be more prominent. Thanks.

By: missing_pieces

missing_pieces — Thu, 22 Oct 2009 23:56:52 +0000

I like this post a lot because it makes since to me, I think I’m a bad girl. lol! I think I have some things in common with the list of women you’ve mentioned- most women do if they just broke from the societal conditioning.

I’ve tried to be the nice chick (doormat) and it never got me love or respect- being some puppet just made me depressed and miserable. Now that I’ve learned a thing or to and have become assertive (note: not aggressive) I am able to get whatever the hell I want in life and have the respect. I am leaps and bounds from where I was just a year ago!

I like the list because all of these women have their edgy/dark-side but are just as sweet/gentle and maternal and they can flip it either way. I definitely love Angelina, I think she uses Brad Pitt as sperm donor/ sex-slave and he’s enjoying every minute of it. lol!

By: TA

TA — Wed, 21 Oct 2009 16:35:13 +0000

Well said Ms. Tee

By: Joreather

Joreather — Wed, 21 Oct 2009 14:49:57 +0000

AMEN!!!!

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By: Glitz & Glamour

Glitz & Glamour — Tue, 20 Oct 2009 23:58:01 +0000

LOVE this post! As a former HBCU Queen, my friends used to call me “Queen of Controversy” because I didn’t conform to what my advisors thought was ladylike conduct. Pleeeeeeeeease!

Each of these women listed above, whether you love or hate them, are all compelling & trailblazers in their own right. Controversial or not, they’re the ones so many guys & girls want to be and/or be with!

By: EbonyLolita

EbonyLolita — Tue, 20 Oct 2009 23:26:11 +0000

Great Post I agree with it all

By: Ms. Tee

Ms. Tee — Tue, 20 Oct 2009 17:58:02 +0000

@ThatOne I disagree. Have u ever seen the interaction between Michelle and Barack? Clearly, she’s the more dominant of the two and she dont play! Being a bad girl, in this article means a woman who goes against the lady-like etiquette that is forced upon us in this society. Michelle rocks short shorts and she tells her man what to do and how to do it. She is definitely a BAD GIRL…in a GREAT way! I could never be bored by listening to her speak.

By: ThatOne

ThatOne — Tue, 20 Oct 2009 17:41:20 +0000

I would NOT consider Michelle a bad girl. What gives YOU that idea? This is a woman who has been IVY bred, never been in trouble, followed a straight path, she is about as exciting as stale bread.

By: Zette

Zette — Tue, 20 Oct 2009 17:28:14 +0000

Michelle Obama…yassss bish yasss!

Love this Tee!