When Your Alpha Is A Flirt
April 3, 2009
They say it’s harmless. Their excuse is: “that’s just how I am.” But is it?
Alphas are known to bask in their sexuality and use it to their advantage. The men like feeling like men and the women like feeling like women. Many enjoy games like flirting and playing cat and mouse to reinforce their desirability among others. Some folks are just natural flirts. But what do you do, if that folk is your man or woman? See the comments from a Facebook poll done by Russell Thomas:
Parker Lorenzo
Yes they flirt all the time. No I don’t care. My warped thinking has me convinced most people cheat or will cheat, married or not. And yes, flirting does eventually lead to cheating.
Kira at 4:55pm April 1
both of us are major flirts but we have a great deal of trust and respect for one another so it doesn’t bother me in the least…good healthy flirting could be good for a relationship 
Tiffany at 12:38am April 2
First…you totally went talk show host on me LOL..LMBO
But what constitutes a flirt? I’ve been married 10 years. I don’t believe my husband is a flirt nor am I..however I’m sure those boundaries are specific to each relationship. I do CARE about cheating though. I don’t believe that I could live with that; but again that goes back to the nature
Anjanette at 5:27pm April 1
Yes he is a big flirt. at first it didn’t bother because i was one til someone told me I was being disrespectful by flirting. And I feel he has started 2 b disrespectful
Marc at 5:09pm April 1
I think folks should be themselves, and if the person does not have qualities you don’t like, then u can make a choice about if u should b in that relationship, nobody should settle!
Are there certain forms of flirting that are more acceptable than others? Is it “normal”?
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These are good comments. Flirting leads to other things and causes problems. I say no to it all around. If I’m flirting believe me I want more.
I agree with the last comment people need to be themselves and not change for others. If I am a flirt, I will continue to be so and just be with a man who likes that because there are men who DO.
My take is that it’s healthy as long as personal relationship boundaries are not crossed.
In this situation, “pursuit” is a very key word. Putting energy into flattery is the part that many attempt to brush off as harmless. I’m not so sure it is, though. People are so starved for attention that I’m not confident AT ALL that the average person knows how to turn-off the flirting before it gets to a level that has crossed the line of respectability for the relationship.
I don’t think I’m a flirt but my wife says that I am. LoL. I think I’m friendly with women. My intentions are always ginuine and there is never any alterior motives. I think it’s harmless. I know where the line is and I’m not gonna cross it.
to me, flirting only matters as much as the folks in the relationship say it means. I like women who are more laid back and not big flirters……but they can take charge in a business environment.