Comments on: When He Has A Second “Wife”…

By: babydoll

babydoll — Tue, 17 Mar 2009 19:04:41 +0000

Big love I don’t even have words, because I have discussed argured whatever about men thinking they Gods gift to earth forever, and I am done, so I will just leave you with an eyeroll and enjoy my red kool-aid- thanks…/sarcasm

By: Darling

Darling — Tue, 17 Mar 2009 19:02:52 +0000

Yes we all wish we could have a “normal” relationship, but what is normal? The Obamas are not “normal” to many people so let’s stop with the naive comparisons. Who’s to say that Kim is sad or depressed. She has her kids and the life she set herself up for, it was what she wanted. She didn’t want anything else because she could have had it. Let’s let people live and stop being so damn judgemental. If folks would look into each of our separate lives best believe there is something to be picked at TOO!

By: Amoye

Amoye — Tue, 17 Mar 2009 18:58:31 +0000

Mike. I love what you said. Simple Brilliance. It’s a shame that she lived her life in HIS shadow. She may be glammed up in her expensive whats its and what nots, but she will hate herself in the long run for the emotional burden of a relationship she allowed herself to be wrapped up in

No man originates with power….WE GIVE THEM POWER. If you want to be a man’s equal…treat him as such, YOUR EQUAL. Do not let him have complete control over your life, by making him feel like his financial situation makes him a better person. Having his babies does not necessarily mean he will be the husband to you that he’s supposed to be.

I hope we all learn a lesson from this woman and see that we MUST strive for better. Look at the Obama’s…thats all I have to say.

By: Zabeth

Zabeth — Tue, 17 Mar 2009 17:36:18 +0000

Diddy and Kim Porter equally disgust me and I can’t believe I just read a blog post rationalizing their situation. I think Kim is one of the dumbest women around for putting with this and, Diddy has humiliated her on too many occasions. She’s not happy in this situation- read her interview with Essence. Why do we put up with this as women? These two are the prime examples of what’s wrong in our community today. This is what we need to fix and not make excuses for- this idea that marriage is irrelevant, that women don’t need husbands, and that fathers are optional. I guess things have come to a point where we as women will just accept anything and go along with all the excuses just for the sake of having a piece of a man.

By: Gladys

Gladys — Tue, 17 Mar 2009 17:03:48 +0000

@THC I am like you, I have never really followed Diddy’s life. The one thing I have always noticed about him is that he always looks well put together.

No woman should put up with her husband having a second wife. Then what is the point of getting married. I hope P- Diddy has his business in order and I hope Kim’s name is on something. All those kids are going to need support if something was to happen to him. Again though that is one of the privileges that come with being married. If they were married and something happened to him she wouldn’t need to worry.

This reminds me of a co-worker I knew. She knew this soldier for around 2 years, then she moved in with him because she got pregnant. When he was in an accident she was not next of kin so she did not get the first call. His sister called her and when she got to the hospital she couldn’t get any information about him. To make it worse, he had all of the checks and credit cards and she couldn’t get his personal belongings.

There is a six months common law wife legislation her in my state. However, she had only been living with him for 5 months. LOL she was a really unlucky woman.

The moral of the story get married. Why do you think gay people are fighting for the rights to get married. They want the privileges that come marriage and the law.

By: Loving a bottom B

Loving a bottom B — Tue, 17 Mar 2009 16:56:47 +0000

I know someone that has two wives and they all live a happy life. It can be done by regular a dude who is not rich and who does not live in Utah. If the parties involved are cool with it why should I care so long as he can provide for them. However the person I know both of his wives work as well as himself and they live a comfortable lifestyle.

Kim ain’t going anywhere and puff will always have her in his life.

By: mike

mike — Tue, 17 Mar 2009 16:17:24 +0000

It’s a shame that women focus so hard on other peoples money. So much so that you would put up with what this chick has put up with just to be with someone because of what they have. I wouldnt be mad with her had she made him marry her before she had all them babies. Her stock would have been way up at that time. Now even if she tries to move on she will always be that chick that had all them babies with Diddy. Get your own money ladies. His has strings attached. And he will NEVER marry her.

By: Big Love

Big Love — Tue, 17 Mar 2009 15:58:31 +0000

If the first wife was doing her job, there would be no need for the second. Puff is different. He’s basically like Hef – why not have your cake and eat it too – if you can afford it?

The average joe only does this if he has those same desires. He’ll find a woman (women) down with it and provide for what they need (money, sex, companionship).

Yall (babydoll) keep drinking the Kool-aid. Monogamy is a religious rule to control us and a rule of law to help maintain property rights. But much like prohibition we will find a way to get around it – without having to move to Utah!

By: James

James — Tue, 17 Mar 2009 14:21:16 +0000

This is interesting and no I don’t think a regular woman should accept this from a man. I understand Kim’s position. She and Puffy kind of grew up together. Now, she may be paying a high price with the stress and all and I have a feeling Puffy makes it hard for other dudes to approach dropping in and out like he wants to, it ain’t right, but I understand. Not because I’m a man! I’m very sensitive to women issues.

By: The Hooker Chronicles

The Hooker Chronicles — Tue, 17 Mar 2009 14:19:42 +0000

I’ve never really followed Diddy so Im not too familiar with Kim either. She’s cute though!