When He Has A Second “Wife”…
That he’s not married to.
She’s a woman who has been in his life from the come up, through the breakups, through the dramas, through the celebrations, through other women, through it all. She’s like an oak tree. Never moves. Sways every now and then, but at that same spot is where you’ll find her shining under the sun.
Not talking about the woman who just deals just because she has nowhere to go. This kind of woman is the second “wife”. In these cases, sometimes they have more privileges than the first.
Women like Kim Porter. Granted she’s with Puffy for the cash and status (so what!) but there is real love between those two. Anytime they break up, they are back in the news and photos together. Kim holds lots of secrets about Puff. She also has three children, two who reportedly folks say she took fertility pills to conceive, hence the twins.
Anyway, I like these two. They seem to understand their bond, even though the outside world doesn’t. They may never get married (tho I think so). If Puff married somebody else, this new woman has to be friends with Kim and give her that respect, as long as its mutual. If I was married to Puff, I’d have no problem doing that. We’d just be one big happy family of 3, wait 7, oh damn.
Men like Puff are an enigma, quintessential alpha traits. Whether you like him or not, he’s a legend, an icon of pop culture. He said years ago after all the Biggie/Pac/East/West coast dramas that he’d be the only one standing. He is. It was also very admirable for him to adopt Quincy, Kim’s son from Al B. Sure. An act usually performed after marriage.
But back to the man, Puff. He’s charismatic and he’s a provider. Misa, his first baby mama of Justin, acted up some years ago, and he shut that down and hit her off with cash. So did, Kim, which was laughable because she doesn’t have that in her like that. He shut that down, too. Kim could have easily moved on to some other big wig cat. Her stock is up after Puff. It’s said that after a woman has one baller, another baller wants her. She’s in the circle. Figure it out later.
He’s the kind of man women make provisions for. Yeah, he’s paid. But the women stick around. I have never really heard any of his females diss him like we’ve heard others. I know he has a tendency to go off but he’s under a lot of pressure. Oh, oh, see me. Already making excuses.
Kim, girl, do your thing. If you guys never marry, just make sure Puff has that will situation straightened out–and hide it! You had this coup planned from the days at Uptown. You and Puff may be soulmates, but that is for you guys to express however you wish. No matter what happens, you win.