By Guest Blogger, The Hooker Chronicles
I’ve been thinking an awful lot about the topic of sucking vs riding a man also called oral sex vs. cowgirl sex. Not because I was sitting around bored and had nothing better to do, but because I’ve been asked about it’s importance when it comes to men and sex. There’s a really common belief that a dominant man prefers oral sex over cowgirl sex. His dominate nature requires that he be in charge, even in sex.
I don’t necessarily agree with that theory. I personally feel that there’s nothing more dominant than a woman with very sharp teeth and a willingness to use them, who’s on her knees between a man’s thighs while she’s got him bound up. Anyone who’s been in that position can probably testify that it’s an extremely nervous moment to experience, especially if you’re completely aware of the fact that the woman that you’re with is more than willing to administer punishment if you don’t obey her every command while she’s pleasuring you with her tongue.
This is an everyday occurrence for those of us in the BDSM community (bondage, discipline, sadism, and masochism); Sex, power exchange, and discipline.
But for civilians, the experience is somewhat different. When it comes to sex in the regular world, the act is either an emotional exchange between two people, or just a physical pleasure exchange; it all depends on how you view it.
Now, when I was asked which is more important to most men– oral sex or cow-girl sex, my reply was, it depends on the man. But let me stress one thing, sex is sex, no matter the position. But if there were one position that I recommend every woman perfect, it’s the fine art of Fellatio. I say this because, out of all the sexual positions, oral is the one most preferred, and quite fun if I may say so.
But make sure your partners nether regions are fresh and clean, because nothing takes the fun out of sucking for fun like smelly man parts.
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Never met a man that preferred fellatio over sex. Fellatio should be the icing on the cake and you better master it. I would not accept slack fellatio, even if the sex was a 10! But…. I digress.
I advise that before any woman try to become a sexual Amazon that she get in line with herself and learn to masturbate. I find that once your comfortable with your body you’ll know how to use it to your advantage with men. Men find women who are comfortable w/their bodies better in bed no matter what tricks they pull out the air. WIth that foundation you can master cowgirl/missionary/fellatio
Love,
EbonyLolita
I do agree that it depends on the man.. So as with anything else ladies practice and MASTER that sh*t
Interesting! Never thought about which one before, glad men don’t make us choose, I know what I would!
Agree that’s it should be both and women can not be perfect in every single thing we do in bed unless we are getting paid some nights i am good at both sometimes i rather just sit on him. it depends.
@morris but if u had to choose which one?
Why can’t I have both?
Thank God because I wouldn’t know how to ride a man if my life depended on it……………….