It’s a shame.
There are more women out there cloaked as men than there should be. It has happened to most of us. You are either so used to being single or at your hi powered job, that you forget to be “a girl”. For example, if you have been single for some time and date, you may tend to want to control everything–the time he picks you up, where you go to eat, what he wears, what he says, how he thinks, and what you say. Even if you are just “testing” the waters, it is still too much masculine energy that you are projecting. Men may respond by being defensive or just turned off. Another example: If you are in a relationship and get riled up and want to argue over things that don’t go your way means that you want to fix and solve problems. Actually, you want to fix it before it becomes a problem! All of that is masculine energy in the wrong hands.
Masculine and feminine energy when they work together in one person help to balance your temperament, too much of the other equals drama. Pretty hair and nails is not enough to be a feminine, there’s more. The tips below will help you fall back into your lane, and use the power you already have. They also make you feel good. Now go do something!
1) Take more time every day to share in non-goal oriented ways about the problems of the day, like having lunch with or talking to someone who does not have the answer to your problems.
2) Get a massage or some kind of nurturing body work to bring a non sexual awareness to your body.
3) Never miss an chance to let a man carry a box or open a door for you.
4) Make regular time for meditation, prayer, exercise, journal writing, etc.
5) Vary your routes from work or school to avoid the efficiency of getting home the same way (this also helps with control issues!)
Good points,
Plus depending on the type of industry you work in women can get caught up in being too “Hard” and sometimes that’s hard to turn off when you leave the job. Ladies all good things we should keep in mind.
Love, EbonyLolita