Tip 5: How To Be An Alpha Female
An alpha female cannot be categorized, and will always rise above the stereotype of being a “woman” or rise above a group; in fact she doesn’t even think she is a “woman” for she is embarrassed to the level many have succumbed to by their emotional recklessness; Former British Prime Minister Margaret Thatcher once said, “Don’t ask me about being a woman” and she had no female members in her Cabinet.
When I read that about Thatcher, I was surprised, but then again I could totally relate. But let’s be clear on all this. The alpha female has no problems with being female. She only debunks all the stereotypes of what is typically a woman. Her behavior is not predictable. In fact, she laughs at other women who succumb to every emotion and desire that makes them toss all logical and rationale out the window. Very easily offended, distracted, depressed, unreasonable, unsure, jealous, insecure, should I go on? Some even react in an illogical manner that is too far away from anything rationale. Thatcher also once said, “I owe nothing to women’s lib.” Women’s lib is the so-called “feminist movement”. I’m sure she respected those lovely ladies for all of their hard work, but alphas believe their very own self has carved their journey. She didn’t use the advantages of being a “feminist” to scare, derail, or manipulate others to her point of view and definitely not to scare men into hiring or agreeing with her. In fact, a little pleasure mixed with business never hurts her. The alpha female is on a track that she’s laid down, almost always a path less traveled.
Oscar winning actress Angelina Jolie is not liked by most women according to most magazine surveys like US weekly, but these same surveys say that over half of women want to be her.
What also makes the alpha female rise above being “just a woman” is that she is not concerned with being liked by other women. Many women will tell you that isn’t important to them when in fact it is. Many women do not like alpha females. However, it is this need to be liked by other women that keeps them from moving forward because they are loyal to the group. The alpha female believes she is dominant, whereas the group remains at the same level as the others.
The alpha female creates her own group, if she sees fit, and they beckon for her to like them.