Tip 22: How To Be An Alphanista

Time is precious.

The Alpha Female in her twenties is all about the hunt, the search for the pot of riches. Whether it’s at work, home, or play she has to get the best dipping and pickings. She’s stubborn. She won’t concede to “maybe it’s not for you” comments when things don’t go her way. She’ll stay focused until she wins the prize–the coveted Chanel suit, the esteemed promotion, or the elusive man she’s been wanting to “catch” her. But sometimes, things don’t go her way. In her 30s, she begins to realize that, if she’s lucky, sooner. To keep doing something because you think it’s owed to you, without any tangible results is precious time you’re playing with.   Most people will turn bitter–blaming the economy, men, or whatever else they imagine is in their way.  A true Alpha will develop a new role she can star in. She’ll take stock of her age, where she is in her life, and what she needs, not just wants, or what others think she deserves.

Never be afraid to start a new dream. It doesn’t mean that the old one has died it’s just been reborn with a new face. If you wanted that house on the hill, then maybe a cottage by the sea would suffice, or maybe one in the woods. Always thought you liked rich men only? Well, how about a man with ambition who worships you? Unfortunately, too many women look for men that they can worship. No. Alpha males are used to this, and in secret, they want to worship you (more on that later).  Your perception about what you need to be happy, must change if you are to win anything in life.

In the end, be fearless.

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  1. Ms. Tee says:

    Just as we change…so does our perspective about life and our desires…. In our 20’s..whats important may not be so important by the time we reach the 30’s. I remember that I used to HAVE TO ACHIEVE or ELSE! lol now I’m more about doing what I love to do everyday and being HAPPY. That’s all I require from life right now. And I’m good with that.

  2. Beryl says:

    I love this. It really rings true. I am a young woman and I am looking at where I want my life to go in the future with a new perspective. I know that plans are just guidelines and that life brings unexpected opportunities. You don’t have to forget about your dreams, but new ones may be better for the path you’re on now.

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