Tip 2: How To Be An Alpha Female

Tip 2–A woman who is completely in control of her destiny (dedicated to my girl in DUBAI)

It’s simple.  Honor your yes’es and no’s in life.   You ever met that woman who can’t make a decision without conferring with 3 or 4 other people?  How about the one who decides to go out one night to a party, has an awful time, comes home, and beats herself up for going and wasting her time?  Both of these scenarios are about being utterly confused and wasting valuable brain energy.  I’ve been guilty of going out and regretting my decision later.  Or not going out, and wish I did.  It took a minute to see that it’s all fruitless.  The more you keep second guessing yourself the more you see yourself going in circles.  If you are the controller of your destiny (and not everyone believes this, my dears) then you have to act like it.  No one wants to be in the passenger seat of a manic driver with no destination, or who stops people in the street every few miles for directions.  So, I don’t care what it is.  Cooking chicken or fish tonight?  Just make a decision and stick to it.  Believe you made it with the best intentions.  Then let it go. Just let it go.

But what you shouldn’t let go is your weight.  An alpha-female is very conscious about her inner, and outer beauty.  With all the diets and fitness plans available, there’s just no excuse.  And no, you are not “big boned”.  Check out the Three Most Popular Weight Loss Plans and do not finish this year without making some kind of definitive decision about your life and your appearance.  You get all the diet plans in one, and you can take your time and see what works.  An alpha-female is all about looking good and feeling good and is well within her healthy weight range–period.


  1. Shug says:

    i think this is a great topic. So many of my girlfriends have a hard time making decisions. When they finally make a decision they are constantly asking if it was the correct decision…

  2. Camille says:

    yes very hard for me to do, maybe if I didnt have such a bad history with messed up decisions, but its about taking responsibility and not being victim; i get it; its so easy to play like you dont know when u do.

  3. Camille says:

    What is wrong with being “big boned” LMAO. Well sometimes we cant help it if we are big.That dont mean I dont care tho. Thanks for the tip at the end, ordered the book because dammit if none of those dont work, i give up. I tried 2 others.

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