Tip 1–A woman unafraid to use, and sometimes, exploit her femininity to get her way with men or seal a business deal
You know that woman on your job. She dresses to kill, hair is perfect, hips sway every time she walks, and is always smiling. The men love her, swarm her desk with “good mornings” and leave little candies in her pencil holder. If she’s the office secretary, she can usually get the mailroom guys to drop their copy jobs to do her stack of copies without a problem. If she’s the VP, she can get the President to fire somebody or give her the next promotion without a “review”. Or at least, not the one the little people have to get. Her review would most likely be over dinner, or, cozy lunch with the boss. When used wisely, feminine power can shake trees. It’s about being confident, knowing how to say things is more important than what you say. She doesn’t cry wolf, and could care less about sexual harassment suits. She doesn’t see any other reason why women wear 5 inch heels to work other than for a man, and doesn’t quite understand how other women become so easily offended when they capture a man’s fancy at work.
An alpha-female believes she has what it takes, and is proud of her femininity and all it offers the world, for she sees herself as a gift to the world, physically, emotionally, and spiritually. She loves every bit of being a woman, not just a lady. It’s her choice to use her sexuality as she wishes to make her climb to the top more risky, adventurous, and fun.
Do you have to be beautiful to get your way with men? No way. Again, it’s how you say things. It’s the confidence you wear, not how much you weigh. Men are the most gullible of creatures, and a woman who knows how to take care of them, will get very far–at home and at work.
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