Comments on: Weekend Rewind: Ten Reasons Why This Alphanista Won’t be a Cougar

By: renee

renee — Sun, 22 Mar 2009 23:33:10 +0000

Mike has a point

By: mike

mike — Sun, 22 Mar 2009 23:07:26 +0000

Cougars are fooling themselves. They have been overlooked by men their own age for so long they start not to care that folk will look at them with the side eye.They are puttin on ed hardy cut-off tees and pum-pum shorts flashing their child bearing stomach wrinkles and putting their gravity pulled mamories on display trying to fool the youngins into thinking they still got it! Look at Linda Hogan. So SAD.

By: Renee

Renee — Thu, 19 Mar 2009 20:20:38 +0000

No chord struck….its just that in this phase of my life, I cannot see myself with somebody less than 10 years my senior….keep in mind that I am only 23 so I don’t have many peers that fit my prerequisites…not much to choose from. An older man to me is 30 and up.

By: Michelle

Michelle — Thu, 19 Mar 2009 20:07:25 +0000

As a former “cougar”, I can say that there are some younger men worth a second look. Fortunately my former “eight year younger than I” husband, (the marriage ended for reasons other than age) was far more mature than most of the older men I have dated. I do have to confess that I did from time to time wonder if I was seen as woman fooling herself…..but I think sometimes you get lucky and age “IS” just a number.

By: Josie

Josie — Thu, 19 Mar 2009 20:04:04 +0000

Inclusive statements will never win an argument. Actually I dated a younger guys & I learned a lot. On top of that I loosened up & we had a lot of fun.

Did I strike a cord b/c you come across upset in your last statement?

By: Kris

Kris — Thu, 19 Mar 2009 19:46:21 +0000

I als beg to differ. I have had an older man (16 years older) and he was caring, but still a bit childish as far as the relationship. He also was comfortable with marrying numerous times and making the SAME mistake each time and wanted me to be his girl through two of them. I am sure that he doesn’t represent all and he is not the first older guy that I have talked to. The other were either married, controlling, and insecure with themselves.

Give me an equally yoked man that cares about my well being anyday.

My younger man (3 years) actually has all of those traits and does not believe in living with his momma and/ or a female unless he is married to them. He respects me and can do it anyway (fast or slow) that I ask. He also knows my body by the back of his hand.

I think it is the man, not age and the same for women. Not everyone is mature or conscious of many of these thiongs because they never took the time to care about them. As women we just need to really pay close attention to who and what we are dealing with.

By: Renee

Renee — Thu, 19 Mar 2009 19:35:33 +0000

You will learn NOTHING from a younger man! All those women are KNOWN twits….and that’s why they have younger men….

By: Josie

Josie — Thu, 19 Mar 2009 19:17:11 +0000

(this one)

Sorry Ladies but I have to respectfully disagree. Women should make the best of the situation whatever the man’s age. I could never discriminate on someone because of their age nor willingly accept someone for the same reason. It’s just crazy to think this way. Everything center’s around me, it’s all about what they can teach me so I’m willing to accept the lessons from the young and old. And, if they give me a reason to move on I’ll do so without hesitation.

I bet if you take this conversation to Mariah Carey, Halle Berry, Tameka or Kim K. they’d respectfully disagree as well.

By: Renee

Renee — Thu, 19 Mar 2009 16:48:14 +0000

Older men are the best at EVERYTHING!!! I am 23 and men less than 10 years my senior disgust me!! Older man with a younger women is definitely more compatible. Women that date men significantly younger want someone to take care of or is at the same (low) maturity level as the man….in my opinion.

By: Nikki

Nikki — Thu, 19 Mar 2009 16:26:18 +0000

Older men want younger women! Point Blank.