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All I Want For Christmas

Credit: AzmanL

By Te-Erika Patterson

Do you want to delight your Alphanista this holiday season? It’s not too late to earn her appreciation. Try any of these gift ideas to make your superstar smile.

A Delicious Meal – She’s so worn out from building her empire (or supporting you while you build yours) that she needs some replenishment. Tell her you have something special for her. Have her wait for you in her favorite cozy spot while you make her a home made meal filled with her favorite treats. Don’t forget dessert and you might get some dessert later.

Something That Sparkles – She LOVES sparkles. Preferably the Asscher cut. No more than 1 ½ karats though; anything larger will be too gaudy.

A Body Massage – She’ll remember why she chose you when she’s listening to Orange Moon by Erykah Badu as you caress her naked body with sweet smelling lotions while telling her all the ways she intrigues and delights you. Don’t forget the happy ending. Yes, ladies love that too!

A Pleasant Surprise – A new sound system for her car or even a connection she’s been trying to make to help her reach her next goal. Do something  that she can’t quite seem to do for herself and watch her melt in your arms.

A Real Orgasm – It’s not about you tonight. It’s about making love to her entire body. Pay special attention to the area behind her knees and her collarbone.  Strategically place tasty fruits and desserts across her body and don’t leave a crumb behind as you have your midnight snack. Find her Oh Button. You know just where it is. Press it. Often. Make her beg you to stop.

Te-Erika Patterson frequently writes blog posts for Alphanista.  To learn more about her visit her at www.te-erika.blogspot.com.

10 “Alpha” Things To Do For Christmas


[Notice: Due to Christmas, there will be no new posts today]

Ready?  Here it goes!

1.  Nothing.

2. Nothing.

3.  Nothing.

4.  Nothing.

5.  Nothing.

6.  Nothing.

7.  Nothing.

8.  Nothing.

9. Nothing

10.  Be good to yourself.  Be authentic to yourself.  Don’t change because everyone says you have to go along.  If you’re not ready to celebrate this holiday with everyone else, don’t feel guilty.  However, it could be a good time to meet new people as an alpha female is always about expanding.  But there’s so much pressure this time of year to be somebody you are not, to make the relationship work, the break off the relationship, to spend more money than you have, to be happy when you are not, to smile for your kids when you are crying, to spread the Christmas cheer when you want to just slap everybody.  But in order to experience what this holiday is really about you have to stay STILL.  There’s lots of magic and happiness in that, too.

Weekend Rewind: Choose A Theme, Not Resolutions…Again

It's a New Year, Do You Know What Your Theme Is?

Sorry guys, the New Years caught me out there!  Here’s the Weekend Rewind, finally.  A classic!  Remember this?


If you can get a head start on your new year’s plans, let me suggest one thing.  Stop telling people your New Year’s resolutions.  Besides, it weakening the energy of your new year goals when you tell everyone, just stop. If I hear someone tell me what they “want” to do for the new year “again”….

Do something different, really different this year.  Have a theme.  Yes, instead of coming up with the cutesy lose weight, make more money, spend more time with family, just think of a theme you’d like to name 2009 after.  I chose the Harvest theme.  I sowed lots of seeds in the last year or two.  2009 is destined to be my Harvest year where I reap the rewards in health, wealth, and continued love and more.  I don’t have a sporadic list. I have a simple theme that keeps me focused on the big picture.  Here’s another theme Body Image.  Just two words.  An associate of mine is using that theme to make 2009 all about getting a head to toe makeover, losing some pounds, overhauling her dress style from trendy to classic, and of course, joining a gym and hiring an image consultant.  She’s given herself 10-12 months.  Not bad.  But the fact that she has one idea, one objective, one tune in her mind allows her to choose anything that falls in line with her theme. This year may be your Sowing year.  Consider what seeds you need to sow.  When people ask what’s your resolution, you have a nice, clear answer instead of rambling off another random list with no clear objective, offers no solutions and just creates more clutter in your life.  A theme is also a great conversation piece.  It’s a very “alpha” thing to do.  Think about your theme.

You have 2 days.  If you come up with a theme, please send them to me to post for New Year’s Eve, or post below, as always.

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