Especially, if he’s an alpha…
This Sunday is Superbowl. The alpha female is doing one thing: she’s out.
Time after time I keep reading how women are spending Superbowl Sundays with their man and his friends, and manning the background like Mamie. Can’t these men be left alone for one day? For instance, a very alpha thing to do would be to throw your own Superbowl party for the wives, girlfriends, or singles only. You can do this in the basement of the same house or at another person’s house, like a beta, so she’d do all the cleaning up afterwards.
Basically, the thing is to let the men have their day. Always seek opportunities to foster space between the two of you. It’s a fact that the more time people spend apart the more time they spend together in thought bonding the relationship on a deeper level. This is even more important if you live together. Sure, work is one way of spending time apart but everyone needs time to foster their own interests, so they can come back and share. Beta men hate this because it brings up feelings of inadequacy on their part and many wouldn’t know what to do out of their routine. Alpha men crave cave time. Out of sight, is not out of mind with a man you talk to several times a day.
But of course, there are women who insist they are football fans, too and must be with their man on that day or the sky will fall. The excuse to stay is “Oh, I’ll cook for ya’ll.” But you can still cook, set it out all out, and bounce. A man may not tell you, but he’d rather just sit around with his friends, cuss, drink, fart and eat without you walking around or sitting around giving them the side eye. They want to talk about the stacked cheerleaders or chick in the commercial or call a player a “bitch” every now and then without worrying about you.
For those of you who make this a tradition with your man, so be it. If you have no man, and are invited to a party then by all means go. You can also stay in and just make it a regular Sunday if you can’t be bothered or let him go alone. This can also be your day to really flutter about doing things that make you feel good without anyone checking in for at least 6 hours. This is for those ladies who feel they MUST keep a tight leash on their man on any day of the year. Get out the house that day. Find your own bar, pub, with friends and do your thing. Come home and take care of your man, then. Hopefully, his team has won and he’ll be in a “up” mood.