I gathered some thoughts from the girls over at Baller Alert as to how they felt about being submissive to a man, particularly a baller. A baller, in this context, is a man of money, prestige, and status. There were over 50 comments, but I was surprised to see some that really agreed with the concept of a man being THE MAN. Many women are afraid to voice their desire to be submissive, or out of fear push it away, but there are still some who want to be and own it. Take a look:
–I have this type of relationship…one of a deep trust. He is a natural leader, a protector, a provider, a real man; he handles his business, sexes me crazy and takes care of home. I respect him, love him & treat him like a king. He has proven his dedication to me; and in return I listen to him, I do what he asks of me; and rarely question him, or argue – because I know he has our best interest at heart…I have never been loved so completely by a man… It is difficult to explain…
–I think deep down a lot of women are tired of having to play both roles when it comes to relationships. And the women who do find themselves alone for the most part….
–If I’m ever in a long-term relationship again, this is what I want. I’ve always been attracted to the dominant alpha-male who knows how to handle himself and me. I know I haven’t found him yet because lately all that I’ve run across I’m running over….
–…this is the type of man I would want to have, but like I said before… If he is to lead, he has to know how to lead, have a plan, and the means to get us there.
–I have only met one man that I would be submissive to and I fought him all the way. He was a good man and if I’d made different choices then maybe I would be a happier person today.