[This is not about Chris Brown, he is a child. This is about grown ass menz]
Athletes are notorious for the smack down.
Women, alcohol, and anger are bad when they meet each other. Some time ago, NFL player Larry Johnson was charged with assaulting a woman–again. Another player, Plaxico was arrested or something like that for hitting his wife in their home.
This all shows that despite the money these men are stacking, they are just, well, crazy like everybody else. They are not perfect and money does not change who they are when they’re alone. They are subject to the same weaknesses and trials we all are.
I am not excusing their behavior. But we cannot change anyone but ourselves. The problem here is that too many females are not CHOOSING wisely. You give up control on the first night. You gotta know how to vet your man, especially if he is high profile.
Ladies, choose these men, don’t let them choose you. Learn to align yourself with women who have something more to offer you than the latest gossip. Find friends who have better access than you, know more than you, look better than you. Yes, look better. That way they won’t be intimidated by you and will spill out all their secrets. If you are the flyest one in your group, it’s time to upgrade you.
Here’s some things to know if you are with the rich and crazy:
1. Stop trying to help your girlfriends with advice, and help yourself. True, you want to help womankind, but do trust there are women out there who don’t care about any “crazy man” rumors and will still bed him in a heartbeat; Money makes problems seem less for the unfortunate many
2. These hi profile men have lots of societal pressures from work, family, friends, women. Decide if that’s something you can handle. If not, move along, but don’t exasperate the issue
3. Take care of yourself. Always use not only sex protection, but mental protection. Do not ever provoke a man. Even if he is worth millions, no other rich man would wanna come near you, if they’re smart, too much to lose (Rihanna is now holding Chris Brown’s career right in her palms, so sad! To give it all away like that…oh, but this not about Chris Brown)