Question: If the man you are engaged to asked you to lose weight or he won’t marry you, would you do it? Would you lose weight?
I recently had a friend who encountered this. She’s in the process of endless workouts with a trainer now.
Countless men and women have to compromise and negotiate before the walk down the aisle. Where will we live? Your bank or mine? You know, standard merging life issues. But when it comes to appearance, is that negotiable? Frankly, I believe if a person has made a promise before God to be with you until death you can’t necessarily tell them off and be gone. Where are you gonna go? You have to listen. You may have to compromise. It’s not about you anymore. Too many people are holding folks hostages in relationships with that thinking.
Now, if it’s a weight issue, doesn’t this man have a right to make sure his woman stays in shape. Afterall, he’s supposed to be with her till the grave. But if he asks, and she does it, what if she gains it back? Then what?
What say ye?
If your partner asked you to lose weight, and if you don't he won't marry you, would you lose the weight?
- No, if he can't accept me now he never will! (73%, 81 Votes)
- Yes, I want to get married, I love my man! (27%, 30 Votes)
Total Voters: 111
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