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The Alphanista’s Conquest

By Te-Erika Patterson For the Alphanista, every decision is a strategic move toward a desired end. Even her passions are born from a yearning for a specific lifestyle.  Although she is notorious for planting seeds and setting dominoes in place it’s not as calculated as it may appear to those who wonder how she manages …

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Embrace Your True Self

By Guest Blogger Te-Erika Patterson Have you ever noticed that sometimes there seems to be a battle going on inside of you? Most often, it’s because you feel trapped in someway and feel as though you can not express the real you. This leads to being defensive and angry and it affects the way you …

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An Alphanista vs. HMW

By Guest Blogger, Te-Erika Patterson Although an Alphanista and an HMW (High Maintenance Woman) may bear remarkable similarities in appearance due to their immaculate flair for style and unflinching flock of followers, the buck stops there. When it comes to dealing with the various intricacies of life the two could not be more different in …

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When You’re A Bad Girl…

By Guest Blogger Te-Erika Patterson Mind your manners…Cross your legs…Speak softly…Let him lead…Wear skirts with heels…Become an excellent cook…Find joy in cleaning…Become a nurse…Or a teacher…Nurse your babies…Look the other way when he strays…And you’ll master…Being…a lady But…when you’re a bad girl…these rules don’t make any sense. In fact, those who follow these rules seem …

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You Can Have Whatever (Man) You Like…

(Alphanista welcomes guest bloggers who fit our perspective) By Guest Blogger Te-Erika Patterson While watching a television biography about the union of Arnold Schwarzenegger and Maria Shriver, I was amazed to learn that the entire time Schwarzenegger was single he envisioned marrying someone from a political family, well connected or perhaps even royalty. He saw himself …

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Depression Inspiration: The Disillusioned Alphanista

By Te-Erika Patterson Yes, the Alphanista is delusional. She has to be in this world. She recognizes that her ability to create the world around her is a direct reflection of her thoughts and perception so she perceives everything to b grand. Her morning cup of coffee or tea is a royal ritual in her …

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Top 5 Movies Where Alphanistas Rule

By Te-Erika Patterson Grab a bag of popcorn and get pumped up while watching these Alphanistas steal the show. Diary of A Mad Black Woman (2005) Alphanista you gotta love – Madea (Tyler Perry) The 1999 play I Can Do Bad All By Myself first introduced this Alphanista. The elderly, socially defiant Madea has gone on …

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