Comments on: Open Letter to LisaRaye http://www.alphanista.com/letter-to-lisaraye-a-request-from-one-of-my-readers/ Dedicated To The Alpha Female Perspective.... Fri, 30 Jul 2010 13:25:15 -0500 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.2 hourly 1 By: Tearose http://www.alphanista.com/letter-to-lisaraye-a-request-from-one-of-my-readers/comment-page-1/#comment-2561 Tearose Sun, 31 May 2009 03:17:03 +0000 http://mrwrites.wordpress.com/2008/09/10/letter-to-lisaraye-a-request-from-one-of-my-readers/#comment-2561 Hey Lisa when you are black woman over 40 and a mom, you got to be more smart........Yeah you should have opened schools and blend in with the women.......women tend to stick together when the man is in the wrong. Now you have nothing, no money, no man. You should have been stashing $$$ like crazy and playing dumb........ Hey Lisa when you are black woman over 40 and a mom, you got to be more smart……..Yeah you should have opened schools and blend in with the women…….women tend to stick together when the man is in the wrong. Now you have nothing, no money, no man. You should have been stashing $$$ like crazy and playing dumb……..

]]> By: The Hooker Chronicles http://www.alphanista.com/letter-to-lisaraye-a-request-from-one-of-my-readers/comment-page-1/#comment-1074 The Hooker Chronicles Sun, 08 Feb 2009 02:01:49 +0000 http://mrwrites.wordpress.com/2008/09/10/letter-to-lisaraye-a-request-from-one-of-my-readers/#comment-1074 Im a little tipsy right now, so I hope this translates into something understandable... Im going to play devils advocate for a second and say that it's possible that her ex-husband didn't live up to his end of their "agreement". Again, we go back to the whole "arrangement" situation where Lisa and this man probably made some sort of "legal agreement" that wasn't upheld on his end. But for some reason when black women start bitching about husbands not living up to their end of the bargain, the women get fed to the sharks. It's possible that she didn't even marry him for love, but married him as a financial agreement, which both parties abviously agreed to. And If she left her semi-posh lifestyle, to come live in the Caribbean with him, and he didn't fulfil his agreement, then she has a right to be pissed! Yeah, I know, I have a total Hooker mentality, so so does many other Alpha females... Im a little tipsy right now, so I hope this translates into something understandable…

Im going to play devils advocate for a second and say that it’s possible that her ex-husband didn’t live up to his end of their “agreement”.

Again, we go back to the whole “arrangement” situation where Lisa and this man probably made some sort of “legal agreement” that wasn’t upheld on his end.

But for some reason when black women start bitching about husbands not living up to their end of the bargain, the women get fed to the sharks.

It’s possible that she didn’t even marry him for love, but married him as a financial agreement, which both parties abviously agreed to.

And If she left her semi-posh lifestyle, to come live in the Caribbean with him, and he didn’t fulfil his agreement, then she has a right to be pissed!

Yeah, I know, I have a total Hooker mentality, so so does many other Alpha females…

]]> By: cypher http://www.alphanista.com/letter-to-lisaraye-a-request-from-one-of-my-readers/comment-page-1/#comment-1072 cypher Fri, 06 Feb 2009 19:35:27 +0000 http://mrwrites.wordpress.com/2008/09/10/letter-to-lisaraye-a-request-from-one-of-my-readers/#comment-1072 @Sherryberry, You said it best, she was in over her head. She did not thoroughly vett her opponent... @Sherryberry,

You said it best, she was in over her head.

She did not thoroughly vett her opponent…

]]> By: Sherryberry http://www.alphanista.com/letter-to-lisaraye-a-request-from-one-of-my-readers/comment-page-1/#comment-1071 Sherryberry Fri, 06 Feb 2009 18:33:29 +0000 http://mrwrites.wordpress.com/2008/09/10/letter-to-lisaraye-a-request-from-one-of-my-readers/#comment-1071 @cypher- That is EXACTLY what I'm talking about. Ivana Trump is a great example of the "don't get mad- get half" rule. It just seems like LisaRaye was in over her head. @cypher- That is EXACTLY what I’m talking about. Ivana Trump is a great example of the “don’t get mad- get half” rule. It just seems like LisaRaye was in over her head.

]]> By: Nukirk http://www.alphanista.com/letter-to-lisaraye-a-request-from-one-of-my-readers/comment-page-1/#comment-1069 Nukirk Fri, 06 Feb 2009 17:46:26 +0000 http://mrwrites.wordpress.com/2008/09/10/letter-to-lisaraye-a-request-from-one-of-my-readers/#comment-1069 Alright, you know a thing or two about a Carib. She'll really drag out the divorce. Well, at least some of them. I wasn't really paying Lise Raye any mind, tho. It would looked so sexy if I hear "divorced". But if she chooses to play the victim, than she ain't looking too good. Alright, you know a thing or two about a Carib. She’ll really drag out the divorce. Well, at least some of them. I wasn’t really paying Lise Raye any mind, tho. It would looked so sexy if I hear “divorced”. But if she chooses to play the victim, than she ain’t looking too good.

]]> By: Kim http://www.alphanista.com/letter-to-lisaraye-a-request-from-one-of-my-readers/comment-page-1/#comment-1068 Kim Fri, 06 Feb 2009 17:12:26 +0000 http://mrwrites.wordpress.com/2008/09/10/letter-to-lisaraye-a-request-from-one-of-my-readers/#comment-1068 Totally agree with you Maryann. I mean really, what the hell has she been doing for the past three years anyways? Just ridiculous not to take advantage of a situation and then complain when you haven't done a damn thing to secure your future or enhance your possibilities. She looks pitiful! Totally agree with you Maryann. I mean really, what the hell has she been doing for the past three years anyways? Just ridiculous not to take advantage of a situation and then complain when you haven’t done a damn thing to secure your future or enhance your possibilities. She looks pitiful!

]]> By: cypher http://www.alphanista.com/letter-to-lisaraye-a-request-from-one-of-my-readers/comment-page-1/#comment-1067 cypher Fri, 06 Feb 2009 17:08:34 +0000 http://mrwrites.wordpress.com/2008/09/10/letter-to-lisaraye-a-request-from-one-of-my-readers/#comment-1067 LisaRaye had to act like Diamond in this situation. Instead, she should've acted like Ivana Trump and took half his scratch...Donald said that she was the most formidable opponent he's ever had. She could've learned a lesson from Juanita Jordan-work your foundation, raise the children and keep amassing evidence of your husband's infidelities and saving your money=$160M, the largest divorce settlement in the history of SPORTS! Be strategic ladies... LisaRaye had to act like Diamond in this situation. Instead, she should’ve acted like Ivana Trump and took half his scratch…Donald said that she was the most formidable opponent he’s ever had.

She could’ve learned a lesson from Juanita Jordan-work your foundation, raise the children and keep amassing evidence of your husband’s infidelities and saving your money=$160M, the largest divorce settlement in the history of SPORTS!

Be strategic ladies…

]]> By: Maryann http://www.alphanista.com/letter-to-lisaraye-a-request-from-one-of-my-readers/comment-page-1/#comment-1066 Maryann Fri, 06 Feb 2009 16:07:23 +0000 http://mrwrites.wordpress.com/2008/09/10/letter-to-lisaraye-a-request-from-one-of-my-readers/#comment-1066 Amer/Carib men need to be discussed more, I'm working on it ;) Amer/Carib men need to be discussed more, I’m working on it ;)

]]> By: Loving a bottom B http://www.alphanista.com/letter-to-lisaraye-a-request-from-one-of-my-readers/comment-page-1/#comment-1065 Loving a bottom B Fri, 06 Feb 2009 15:59:35 +0000 http://mrwrites.wordpress.com/2008/09/10/letter-to-lisaraye-a-request-from-one-of-my-readers/#comment-1065 Carib/West Indian culture is different from American culture. There is a difference in the men and women in both groups. Carib/West Indian culture is different from American culture. There is a difference in the men and women in both groups.

]]> By: Sherryberry http://www.alphanista.com/letter-to-lisaraye-a-request-from-one-of-my-readers/comment-page-1/#comment-1064 Sherryberry Fri, 06 Feb 2009 15:58:01 +0000 http://mrwrites.wordpress.com/2008/09/10/letter-to-lisaraye-a-request-from-one-of-my-readers/#comment-1064 This whole thing is exhausting. I thought LisaRaye was cool but now her whole aura is so wack! What is with black female celebrities, LisaRaye, Lil Kim, Vivica Foxx, they are a hot mess! Maryann, once again you are on point with your analysis of the situation. She's acting like a true beta, she's BEGGING him for more money basically. She could have HAD the money if she had a strategy, but she didn't. I think the title of Ms.Prime Minister get to her head. I think LisaRaye is gone- I feel bad for her; she is an extremely beautiful woman but she isn't the best actress in the world ( but then again that never stopped women like J-LO but unlike LisaRaye, she stays on her grind). I'm all for wanting to be pampered and taken care of but LisaRaye could have taken that cash and start a business or something or build a school,like you said? Hmmm, everybody has to have a side hustle these days. Also, I know she is friends with Vivica A.Foxx, I wonder if she saw this shit coming with her new psychic friends, lol. This whole thing is exhausting. I thought LisaRaye was cool but now her whole aura is so wack! What is with black female celebrities, LisaRaye, Lil Kim, Vivica Foxx, they are a hot mess!

Maryann, once again you are on point with your analysis of the situation. She’s acting like a true beta, she’s BEGGING him for more money basically. She could have HAD the money if she had a strategy, but she didn’t. I think the title of Ms.Prime Minister get to her head. I think LisaRaye is gone- I feel bad for her; she is an extremely beautiful woman but she isn’t the best actress in the world ( but then again that never stopped women like J-LO but unlike LisaRaye, she stays on her grind). I’m all for wanting to be pampered and taken care of but LisaRaye could have taken that cash and start a business or something or build a school,like you said? Hmmm, everybody has to have a side hustle these days.

Also, I know she is friends with Vivica A.Foxx, I wonder if she saw this shit coming with her new psychic friends, lol.

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