Comments on: Let Your Man Go, So He Can Stay

By: EbonyLolita

EbonyLolita — Thu, 04 Jun 2009 01:13:45 +0000

I agree hands down on this. A lot of women give up their friends or their personal time b/c they’re catering to their man. Men don’t do this. An Alpha would neva disown friends or put herself 2nd to her man. That’s plain idiotic. You can’t compete w/ a stripper or a pole unless you used to be in the profession (LOL ) Do you, improve you and be confident in you and he should always come back home b/c your reality will be betta then the fantasy.
P.S. My man might be mad bc my friends & I might beat him to the strip club. Ha!! It’s the new hang out spot anyway *shrug*
Love,
EbonyLolita

By: Mary Ann Heels | Heels

Mary Ann Heels | Heels — Thu, 15 Jan 2009 05:25:20 +0000

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By: shawniebear

shawniebear — Tue, 16 Dec 2008 19:29:17 +0000

I stay distant, I like to make my guy want me. I hate it when women are needy. I also don’t fret when he wants to do whatever, he’s gotta live just as I do.

By: Loving a bottom B

Loving a bottom B — Tue, 16 Dec 2008 19:28:21 +0000

Yes, I would because you made a good point. You should only worry about things you can control. It won’t matter if you try to be with him all the time if a man wants to do something he is going to find a way do it and vice versa. This is really a great article. Also like someone said if you with each other all the time what do you have to talk about and you impose on each others personal space. More women need to do this in my view especially they are with a good guy.

By: Maryann

Maryann — Tue, 16 Dec 2008 19:18:53 +0000

@bottomB, thanks, I knew you would agree

By: Loving a bottom B

Loving a bottom B — Tue, 16 Dec 2008 19:16:03 +0000

A great post and article. You made a lot of good points.

By: Ken

Ken — Tue, 16 Dec 2008 13:16:03 +0000

@Jenine.

Yea, you’re right. I was trying to remember where I saw that picture. I sure damn hope that isn’t somebody’s man.

By: Jenine

Jenine — Tue, 16 Dec 2008 02:29:41 +0000

I totally agree with thie post but Is that the cross dresser from I want to work for Diddy in the picture?

By: J

Tue, 16 Dec 2008 00:39:09 +0000

I must be the alpha to his alpha . B/C I’ve never had an issue with him going out. I want him to go out. PLEASE spend time with your boys. PLEASE don’t smother me. Sometimes I just want to take a nap and sometimes I just want him to spend time doing what he wants.

What do we have to talk about if we’re always around each other ????

By: Ken

Ken — Mon, 15 Dec 2008 23:46:42 +0000

The day my wife gives me 20, one dollar bills and says “go to the strip club but be home by 3AM” is the day I remember why I married her. Nothing better than a confident wife that says, “go out and play responsibly”. But they are too few and far between.