Kelis Is Like Every Other Woman…

Come back to the light, girl!
Step away from the light, girl!

Since Fridays are supposed to be light and airy, I’m not going to give you a long diatribe of what I think about Kelis’ twitter rant about cheating.  Here’s an excerpt from NecoleBitchie:

…Also we can discuss whores I mean the nasty sub par tricks that participate in the cheating. Well let me say this, both parties are gross. And in reality they deserve each other.

All the scum bag coward husbands and the less then impressive sluts unite! You can all go down in flames together! Hooray! Who’s disgusted and bitter? Not I said the cat!…

She goes on to say she doesn’t blame the women but calls them every name in the book.

This also sounds very self righteous like Kelis has never talked to or been with a committed man before.  It’s rite of passage for some women…especially in certain countries.  And the name calling, so bitter.  People in glass houses should not throw stones…that means Kelis.

What is the point of calling other women “whores” and such?  The law of attraction says that only creates more whores.   Married men and women who cheat make their own choice.  They want to cheat.  Simple.  In the end, the women are free to use their bodies as they please.  Some of the men, when they are ready or depending on their options will stop.  At some point, a man “stops” whatever that means to him and it could have nothing to do with his woman.  One man told me, “I was just tired”.  Kind of like, job hunting.  As much as you need to do it, the thrill is gone and it becomes monotonous.  You stop, take a break or find other means.

I expect a emotional rant like this from a beta like Rihanna or somebody, but not Kelis, a woman on the edge or marketed as such.  Cheating and “whoring” has been around since the dinosaurs.  There are even couples who negotiate “open” relationships because of this problem.

So, let’s move on to bigger relationship issues like communication.  I mean, because at the end of the day that is what it boils down to.

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9 comments

  1. trillafood says:

    KELIS IS SPEAKING IN GENERAL ABOUT CHEATING MEN, SHE NEVER ONCE SAID NAS IN NONE OF THOSE TWEETS. IF SHE WANTS TO EXPRESS HOW SHE FEELS OVER TWITTER, THATS HER BUSINESS. SHES FREE TO DO WHATEVER THE HELL SHE WANTS AND DONT GIVE A ***K ABOUT IT EITHER. THATS WHY I LOVE HER EVEN MORE FOR KEEPING IT 100 AND NOT SUGARCOATING SHIT ABOUT UNFAITHFUL MEN. SOMEONE HAD TO SAY IT AND EVERYTHING SHE STATED IS TRUE FACTS. SOME MEN ARE DOGS AND WOMEN WHO ***K WITH OTHER WOMEN’S HUSBANDS ARE JUST AS DISGUSTING.

  2. EbonyLolita says:

    I think it’s the zygote talking too. Kelis tends to be a “private” celebrity so I’m surprised we got any soundbite out of this whole Divorce Fiasco. Hmm…. I have a feeling once this baby drops she gonna come back harder and fiercer in looks/sounds/music. Now I love me some RhiRhi but Kelis has been on hiatus, which allowed her to step her game up. Ahhhh… maybe this is the 1st time Kelis’ heart has been truly broken, but I wouldn’t sleep on her @ all. Imma give her a pass this time as well. She has the right to call everyone out in the situation that involved her and her husband. As I would say “A fi ar mouth she cyan seh wah she wants.” I’m rooting for her and this unborn child b/c I can’t stand to see another broken Black Family.
    Love,
    EbonyLolita 😉

  3. L. D. says:

    I am going to be nice since she is preggers right now. HORMONES! have her acting a little crazy, cause a women who is marketed as edgy, does not act like this. My wise grandmama, always says “You got a hole, well he’s got a pole.” A man is going to do him, this cheating and fornicating has been around since the beginning of time. I say keep ya business private and stop tweeting for all the world to have a birds eye view.

  4. Lark says:

    @babydoll and tender… Ya’ll must be young with those replies.

    First of all “putting a man on blast” is so beneath what she should be doing. She should be talking to him through her attorney – period. She wanted to end it so why she so bitter. He wanted to be with someone else and did (notice I said wanted). If she required a man to be “faithful” to her – then fine – he didn’t do that in the “traditional world” with all its trappings. But I would damn sure rather have someone who is loyal than faithful.

    Secondly, her “putting him on blast” does nothing but make her look like she had on her rose colored glasses for too long. The name calling is interesting because the same thing she is accusing others of – I’m sure she’s done it. I guess she doesn’t remember what her milkshake does that she so proudly sang about. She needs to suck it up and keep it moving.

    A word of advice to her and every one else – stop being so emotional.

  5. tender says:

    If it was me, I would act like his ass don’t even exist! I mean I’m not tellin’ you about the ultrasounds, you’re not getting ANY phone calls and we WILL be setting up “middle person” plan, cause I don’t want SH!T to do w/ ya ass! NEXT!

  6. babydoll says:

    I don’t like people putting there business out there, but you know what????? Women been letting their men cheat and act like it is A-Okay. Just suffering in their own lil worlds, and not puttin that ninja on blast, like he should be. People who cheat should be embarrased and humilated IN PUBLIC, so they know that it is not cute to act like that. So I say, handle your biz Kelis, F*ck it. Its been going on long enough….

    Yea and women ain’t no better, they should be put on blast too.

  7. Angela T. says:

    What is wrong with a woman expressing herself and true feelings why must that be bad? Is he supposed to act like it doesn’t matter? She is his wife (for now), she can speak her mind!

  8. Di says:

    i read this and thought it was a joke kelis sounds like a jealous hormonal 9th grader could be the preggers i expect more

  9. I actually like Kelis so Imma give her a pass…..

    The fact that she’s entertaining the public with her domestic problems is her downfall. She should sit back, keep that mouth shut and work out her issues privately. Stop letting the world see her vulnerability.

    All that name calling and fire spitting is typical for a BW (Basic Woman)!

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