No. Wish I could stop there.
I’m not advocating golddigging, but I do believe most women can’t help themselves. Ask a Russian chick, they’re the best golddiggers in the world. Just like a woman gets whip lash looking at all the Loubs at Saks Fifth Avenue, she has the same reaction to a man in a nice car, in nice shoes, wearing sparkling cuff links, sporting a 4-figure bag that he told me was only one of two left in the world, uhm, ok. It’s ingrained in women’s cells that they seek the best providers.
Sort of like in cave man days. Women were scouting for the best hunter. The man who bought the most meat and goods back to the cave. No one was checking for the dude who came through with two scrawny baby dinosaur legs. Women wanted M-E-A-T. The big thighs with the bones and sides, too. It’s supposed to be that way. It’s nature. Women are responsible for protecting their genetic integrity by choosing mates that will be able to provide their offspring with a stable, nurturing suitable life. Of course, these days women are cave men too and are bringing their meat back to the cave. But she still wants a man who has more meat. Is this golddigging?
Sometimes, women jockey for invitations to certain events that “well off” men attend, all in the hopes of the major coup. They position, manipulate and strategize. Is this golddigging? I’m still not convinced.
There is nothing wrong with a woman wanting to have the best life has to offer. She’s never going to be satisfied anyway. Have you ever met a happy woman, who wasn’t somehow trying to fix even a small minute part of her? Women are never completely satisfied. Even landing “mr. moneybags” will make a woman want more, more, more. She’ll want to dress nicer, eat better, travel more. When she gets that she’ll want more for her kids, more money, more time. Then when she gets that she’ll want to start working on herself, get therapy, read self-help books, start working out more. It’s endless.
Being a golddigger is just a thing that women do because they are women. Plain and simple. Love them for it. What other reason for living would a rich man have if it wasn’t for women?