Practice
reading people based on your gut initial reaction to them.
That gut initial reaction is about your energy meeting their energy to communicate a message: Stay away. Go forward. Leave now.
Most of the time, if we think back to the men in our lives. We had a first “bad” feeling. It may have lasted a few seconds, or even a few minutes, but there was a message delivered that you choose to ignore. Later, you find out that you should have listened.
Then there are those men we meet that we automatically “click” with. You get a message. It says: Whew, this feels good. Nice. Light. Open. These clues let you know when something is “okay”.
This is not to say that bad and good initial messages can’t reverse in the end. But they usually don’t. Only a finely tuned woman can zero in on what is real, and not what they want or desire. She is every in touch with her body and that is where intuition lives. We operate 90% on desires and what we want directed by external motivations. Many times, those things are cloaked in uncertainty and are not good for us in the long run.
Learn to take life slowly and the messages will hit you in an instant and be in your body. Learn to be still and do nothing. Don’t overanalyze or intepret or the magic will disappear. Practice this everyday in how you eat and the info you absorb. Next time, Mr. 6’4 walks in instead of being led by other parts of your body, listen and then act.
It may hurt, but you can’t lose what you never had.





This is not a cake walk. Once a person devotes their life to intuition the game has changed. You live on another level.