Weekend Rewind: If You Are Single And Still Finding Yourself…Stop
Remember this? Before 9 Tuesdays. Vintage days… Enjoy…
Here’s a little something to think about for the next few days.
Married women would usually be the first to tell you how they stopped doing at least 2 or 3 things on the list before they met their husband or found a new love. I find married women as good conduits for advice, because they were single once and gave advice to others. They obviously used their own advice and got married. If you are married, please offer solid thoughts, not any that say single women should just “wait” or “pray” or “be happy being single.” And please, if you are single, please refrain from the “I’m so happy” or “I don’t need a man” comments. This is not that kind of post.
Frankly, many single women are tired of hearing that shish. Gonna keep it gravy and biscuits for this one. Stop doing these things now if you’re single and not by choice:
- Lying to people that you are happy being single
- Finding yourself
- Blaming men or “the shortage”
- Having casual sex
- Forcing yourself to go out
- Talking, again, to the ex
Is this you?
I will explain more in a later post. If you’re ready try 9 Tuesdays. The ladies know what I mean!