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I Don’t Owe Women Anything! Part II | Alphanista™ — Wed, 15 Apr 2009 15:00:28 +0000

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By: empress20

empress20 — Mon, 13 Apr 2009 10:58:23 +0000

Ebony Lolita seems to always hit the nail on the head with her response:). Sweetheart you are fooling yourself in saying that you can “take” somebodies man. You cant take nothing. He just went along for ride! It was like you was the one candy bar that was not well placed in the vending machine and as soon as he shook the machine you fell and he picked you up without even paying for you because you were available. But like EboyLolita said, they always go back to thier woman so unless your talking about one night stands, I understand but if your talking about for keeps, I dont know. What I do know is that its sad:( Wouldn’t it be much easier for you to just find your own man? or Are you afraid that someone is going to take him away from you? Whatever or whichever one it is, just know that the only thing that you do not have to pay for, or get a degree in, or work a 9-5 for, is your dignity/integrity dont throw it out the window just yet. Oh, and your right when you say that Karma is not going to come back and get you; its something much worse. If I know anything, God is going to deal with you way before Karma even touches you! God frowns on the adultress. However, everything you said is not wrong though, anyman is ripe for the taking just as long as he is NOT married; you begin swimming with the sharks right here. Do you know what that does to a family? Do you know how many lives you are destroying? You mean to tell me that you dont even care if you take a father away from his children! I bet you didn’t think about it that way or maybe you did and you still dont care! While you dont owe ME anything, we do owe it to each other to have respect for one another and each others’ situation, notice how I fit respect in there! You might just want to add a little bit of loyalty in there too. Thank God you aint my friend! All the while we are talking about turkey wings, IRA’s and the latest diet program, your plotting to steal my man!!! LOL! If I dont laughat this, I will cry. I so look forward to reading your justifications for this but if it’s anything like this first post, I dont see you getting inducted into the alphanista hall of fame anytime soon.

By: marie

marie — Sun, 12 Apr 2009 23:20:05 +0000

a woman scorned

By: EbonyLolita

EbonyLolita — Fri, 10 Apr 2009 23:52:46 +0000

This is why I’m single. I don’t have time fi dis B.S. The only reason men cheat is b/c there are available women to do so. Honey, if your fine w/dating married men or men who claimed to be in a committed relationship More Power to You. But, you need God’s Grace as well b/c when dealing w/affairs of the heart, women tend to get the short end of the stick. The scorned wife or GF normally doesn’t go after her man, she goes after the woman. SO, enjoy running for your Life after hiding in a closet or gettin’ pumped and dumped. Ohhh and if u brag about how much $$ you get, well $$ doesn’t heal a broken heart or loneliness. That’s a lie women like u like to use to boost your self esteem. I have never dated a married man and hope that I never will. I will not be used as the excuse for Him to hurt Her, whoever She might be. You can’t TAKE anybody’s man, that’s just what those cheating/lying dogs tell u to help u boost your self esteem while your on your knees or on all fours b4 they go creeping back to their Bonefied woman. Baby @ the end of the day *I always say that* Live your life with Integrity b.c we all have to answer to someone greater then you and I.
*2fingas in the air, grabbin’ my Python and walkin’ out the room*

By: babydoll

babydoll — Fri, 10 Apr 2009 19:56:00 +0000

Really? I sort of understand if the man ISN”T married then he is sorta up for grabs ( i still don’t like that either), but if you like a married man, “TAKE HIM” ??? Ummm, naw i am good on that son. There is spiritual ramifications that go along with that one honey. You sound hella delusional, bitter, and ignorant. Whew, women these days…..

This is why so many women are f*cking the same man right now, because of b*tches with this kind of mentality, when will it end?—-smh

I am pretty disgusted with this post, damn even THC ain’t feeling what your saying, and we all know she is pretty damn open-minded to say the least….something is just not right with you boo.

By: BallerAlert

BallerAlert — Fri, 10 Apr 2009 19:22:54 +0000

I had to post this on BA to see what my chick-a-dees had to say…

By: Kevin

Kevin — Fri, 10 Apr 2009 19:20:35 +0000

Whatever you want to do is your B.I.

I don’t agree with you, but I want to see what you have to say in Pt. 2

By: Zabeth

Zabeth — Fri, 10 Apr 2009 19:13:30 +0000

“Okay fine, but I don’t hate women. I don’t have a strategy. I am simply tired of seeing women hold each other back. More to come.”

Okay so then you’d be perfectly fine with another woman stealing your man? And I really don\’t want to hear “No woman can steal my man…” especially since you seem to think all men are up for grabs.

I guess this is what it\’s come too- women are just so d*$n desperate nowadays. Don’t you all see how all this fighting over men works to MEN’s advantage and NOT to women’s.

By: Josie

Josie — Fri, 10 Apr 2009 18:47:17 +0000

Your father left your mother…Huh? Tacky, tasteless & deceitful.

By: Inkognegro

Inkognegro — Fri, 10 Apr 2009 18:24:18 +0000

Deja, I think you dont want women holding YOU back. Im a bit hard pressed to imagine you caring much about any other woman and her concerns.