I Don’t Owe Women Anything!
April 10, 2009
By Guest Blogger, Deja Moore
I will write a more elaborate post about this next week, but I wanted to just hit a few points why I Don’t Owe Women A Damn Thing!
What is this fake solidarity women have for other women? Women are not created to be loyal to each other. We are only supposed to bond on common aims like–how to make money, how to cook the hell out of turkey wings, how to take care of a baby, and how to take care of our bodies. Did you notice something? Yes, I left out men.
In no way or fashion are women supposed to be loyal to other women about keeping a man. What I mean is this: If you see a man you like, take him. If he’s married, take him. If he’s in a relationship, take him. That is what other women do all over the world and I will describe my experience soon. This whole “karma will come back to get you” is a lie created by women to control other women. Karma can care less about you “taking” somebody’s husband or boyfriend. There is a world filled with sex crimes and murder. If karma exists, it will be for those folks. In the game of love, may the best woman win. Or like I heard my Panamanian auntie said, “May the best boat win”.
Listen and learn. If you continue to follow women, you will be alone. Just look around.
I started this post now so if you have any particular questions or comments, I can address them in the next one. To be continued….
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Well. I can’t say i dont know how you feel.
I can say It should be VERY interesting around here in a few minutes.
I guess I really shouldn’t respond to this post due to my hooker status, but PLEASE take heed ladies; this is the type of element you’re up against; the hurt woman who hurts other women.
NOW is the time to make your relationships STRONG against women like her and ME. Although I’m not here to take anyone’s husband or boyfriend away, you must still understand the complexities of the human male mind, and why he’ll easily go for women like her and me.
Keep ALL lines of communication OPEN between your man and you. Make it so that when girls like this woman is on the prowl, your man can look straight past her.
Do make it so simple for the other woman to succeed at getting your man.
I meant to say Don’t make it so simple for the other woman to get your man
You better have a damn good excuse for this mess. How can you be so cold? You are probably a lonely little thing to hate women. Do you hate women?
I look forward to ur post next week!
@THC how do you know I am on the prowl? I can’t be a normal woman who feels this way? I will address that in more in the post!
@Deja
There’s nothing “normal” about your behavior, like there’s nothing “normal” about me being a hooker. Seeking an already taken man is your main intention; why else would you advertise that strategy? You’re just an attention whore drumming for comments like me. Why do you think I use the name “The Hooker Chronicles” instead of my name, which is “Erika”.
I see right through your sheer curtains and lame attempt to garner attention…
Who taught this guest blogger to hate women and feel that there is a competition for men? I feel sad for her.
I don’t believe that we are all responsible for each other’s happiness but I do believe that it’s just nasty to try to lure a man away from the next chick. Thats sooo Young & The Restless and really no man is worth all that effort.
Okay fine, but I don’t hate women. I don’t have a strategy. I am simply tired of seeing women hold each other back. More to come.
Deja, I think you dont want women holding YOU back. Im a bit hard pressed to imagine you caring much about any other woman and her concerns.
Your father left your mother…Huh? Tacky, tasteless & deceitful.
“Okay fine, but I don’t hate women. I don’t have a strategy. I am simply tired of seeing women hold each other back. More to come.”
Okay so then you’d be perfectly fine with another woman stealing your man? And I really don\’t want to hear “No woman can steal my man…” especially since you seem to think all men are up for grabs.
I guess this is what it\’s come too- women are just so d*$n desperate nowadays. Don’t you all see how all this fighting over men works to MEN’s advantage and NOT to women’s.
Whatever you want to do is your B.I.
I don’t agree with you, but I want to see what you have to say in Pt. 2
I had to post this on BA to see what my chick-a-dees had to say…
Really? I sort of understand if the man ISN”T married then he is sorta up for grabs ( i still don’t like that either), but if you like a married man, “TAKE HIM” ??? Ummm, naw i am good on that son. There is spiritual ramifications that go along with that one honey. You sound hella delusional, bitter, and ignorant. Whew, women these days…..
This is why so many women are f*cking the same man right now, because of b*tches with this kind of mentality, when will it end?—-smh
I am pretty disgusted with this post, damn even THC ain’t feeling what your saying, and we all know she is pretty damn open-minded to say the least….something is just not right with you boo.
This is why I’m single. I don’t have time fi dis B.S. The only reason men cheat is b/c there are available women to do so. Honey, if your fine w/dating married men or men who claimed to be in a committed relationship More Power to You. But, you need God’s Grace as well b/c when dealing w/affairs of the heart, women tend to get the short end of the stick. The scorned wife or GF normally doesn’t go after her man, she goes after the woman. SO, enjoy running for your Life after hiding in a closet or gettin’ pumped and dumped. Ohhh and if u brag about how much $$ you get, well $$ doesn’t heal a broken heart or loneliness. That’s a lie women like u like to use to boost your self esteem. I have never dated a married man and hope that I never will. I will not be used as the excuse for Him to hurt Her, whoever She might be. You can’t TAKE anybody’s man, that’s just what those cheating/lying dogs tell u to help u boost your self esteem while your on your knees or on all fours b4 they go creeping back to their Bonefied woman. Baby @ the end of the day *I always say that* Live your life with Integrity b.c we all have to answer to someone greater then you and I.
*2fingas in the air, grabbin’ my Python and walkin’ out the room*
a woman scorned
Ebony Lolita seems to always hit the nail on the head with her response:). Sweetheart you are fooling yourself in saying that you can “take” somebodies man. You cant take nothing. He just went along for ride! It was like you was the one candy bar that was not well placed in the vending machine and as soon as he shook the machine you fell and he picked you up without even paying for you because you were available. But like EboyLolita said, they always go back to thier woman so unless your talking about one night stands, I understand but if your talking about for keeps, I dont know. What I do know is that its sad:( Wouldn’t it be much easier for you to just find your own man? or Are you afraid that someone is going to take him away from you? Whatever or whichever one it is, just know that the only thing that you do not have to pay for, or get a degree in, or work a 9-5 for, is your dignity/integrity dont throw it out the window just yet. Oh, and your right when you say that Karma is not going to come back and get you; its something much worse. If I know anything, God is going to deal with you way before Karma even touches you! God frowns on the adultress. However, everything you said is not wrong though, anyman is ripe for the taking just as long as he is NOT married; you begin swimming with the sharks right here. Do you know what that does to a family? Do you know how many lives you are destroying? You mean to tell me that you dont even care if you take a father away from his children! I bet you didn’t think about it that way or maybe you did and you still dont care! While you dont owe ME anything, we do owe it to each other to have respect for one another and each others’ situation, notice how I fit respect in there! You might just want to add a little bit of loyalty in there too. Thank God you aint my friend! All the while we are talking about turkey wings, IRA’s and the latest diet program, your plotting to steal my man!!! LOL! If I dont laughat this, I will cry. I so look forward to reading your justifications for this but if it’s anything like this first post, I dont see you getting inducted into the alphanista hall of fame anytime soon.
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