Comments on: Tip 13: How To Be An Alphanista

By: Marianne

Marianne — Tue, 21 Apr 2009 19:59:11 +0000

thanks maryann,ithink that is the best answer for me,idont know how bless iam to have found you mistake.may not have been ,but i was lead to you some how.i dont why but im thankful.i be lerking just neverwanted respond until something smack me in the face.the truth in my life. in which was this topic….kisses i really do not know how seperate periods from comas,but i can write and get my point across so please dont judge me for that.sorry i just have self issues right now….more kisses

By: Maryann

Maryann — Tue, 21 Apr 2009 19:23:07 +0000

@Marianne what works for me is WAIT. I wait. It’s part of my process and allows me to take a breath. There’s always that gap in life for all of us and I don’t have to fill it in with something all the time.

By: Marianne

Marianne — Tue, 21 Apr 2009 16:34:45 +0000

im cryin as iread this…im stuck in a situation that i cant get out, what if u have a VISION that i know could help you out of rut,but you have no money,no help from others,then what….

By: Maryann

Maryann — Tue, 21 Apr 2009 00:22:25 +0000

Sure, this blog is more than fun for me or a business, it’s therapy. It really has been instrumental in my own growth without burdening the blog down with too much of me me me lol.

By: Monique

Monique — Tue, 21 Apr 2009 00:16:03 +0000

This post came right on time, I am definitely in the process of a reinventing myself for the better and this gave me a much needed boost! Thanks so much.

By: Toy

Toy — Mon, 20 Apr 2009 23:01:23 +0000

I’ve been lurking for sooo long but this post really pulled me out of hiding. I’ve been through so much the last couple of years, mainly being depressed because I’ve always been on top of my game but had to sit out of college due to non financial & emotional support from parents. I was supposed to graduate last year & start grad school but I’ve had to sit back & watch my friends excel. Every plan I’ve tried to get around my obsticle has failed but reading this gave me hope…thanx

By: Maryann

Maryann — Mon, 20 Apr 2009 21:06:13 +0000

I am currently in the process it’s what makes me get out of bed everyday.

By: Cayenne

Cayenne — Mon, 20 Apr 2009 18:38:55 +0000

“Its not about strength its about vision” …girl preach. This tip hit home, I am dead center in the middle of this exact circumstance.

By: Maryann

Maryann — Mon, 20 Apr 2009 18:37:07 +0000

@tender I can totally relate and you are very welcomed!

By: tender

tender — Mon, 20 Apr 2009 18:15:26 +0000

I NEVER did fit in. I didn’t understand why I was so different from both my friends AND my family. I just was. I found this site and was like DAMN! This is ME! I was like 19/20 then. I just had to say thank you for the site AND the name for women like us. I was starting to get worried, lol.
Anyway, I’ve done the re-inventing. And, of course, leaving my mark was in the plans already cause I’ll be moving pretty soon. The old me isn’t the one I want people to remember. She was young and lost. Therefore, I have to “re-invent” my reputation as well. Wish me luck, lol