This is a 2-1 post.
It’s an update to Advice: My Man Is Trying To Leave Me. To make long story short, Nishay contacted me right after about using it for He Said/She Said because she was still very confused and needed some insight. Read below for more. She sent me her email, then gave me his. And to our surprise, he answered! (If you have a story, email me for guidelines, but understand very few get answered, so be patient)
I also normally post career or job titles to give you more insight on the person, but for some reason these two didn’t provide.
So, who do you think won this game? (Names changed)
SHE SAID, early 30s
Right now I am living back at my sister’s place since *Steve and I broke up.
I didn’t even bother telling him just packed my bags and bounced one night he was out. Like I said, in the letter I wrote you we was together for like a year. We started off like anybody else going out, shopping, and getting to know each other. We did alot of group stuff and I met his friends…. One of his friends was this female that he wanted us to do a threesome with. I had never done that before. But I was like whatever, we already had had sex and been together for a few months. So, we do it, and I’m thinking that this girl is just a friend come to find out it’s someone he had sexed before. Yeah, I found out in the bed when she was “I know how you like it” to him. Now I ain’t one to mess up a wet dream so I went with the flow and kept going.
After that happened the sex between us was great but he wanted more. There was a dude that came in the picture. I told him I wasn’t down with that and another man it was too much. But we was all drinking one night and it happened, it was incredible…. I did notice though that Steve and this dude touched several times like they seemed really comfy, now I know things get sloppy in these moments but they were looking at each other strange. When I asked Steve later, he said I was drunk WTF do I know? So I ignored it and kept it moving. But about three months later in our 6 month he asked me about breast implants….I had always like my breasts, but he wanted them bigger. He offered to pay for them, too. So, I was like why not? I did it for him. I thought it would get us closer and give him some new toys to play with. But after several weeks since I got them, I noticed he had been calling me less. Titties hard and hurting because of the pain, I was pissed and this man was nowhere to be found when I needed him! I even think the place he took me to was botched! My breasts look better now but I never feel right about them anymore….
I really need to know why he did this? I feel like I was used. All I was doing was trying to be the cooperative, good girlfriend who loves her man. I know Steve got some skeletons in his closet but I didnt go there, I loved him. I really did. I would have never done this for anyone else…. I still hope we can talk.
HE SAID, early 30s
I met *Nishay at a strip club. Nuff said.
But if you insist, let me tell you a few more things. These “group” dates she’s ‘tam bout happened at the strip club. She was eying my ex chick who is a bartender, and asked about her. So we all down for that one night, knowamean? But my ex chick and I is mad close we been through alot so I got love for her still but not on no commitment sh*t. I dunno about not doing no threesome before, Nishay was a pro let me just say she didn’t need a lot of convincing to do what she did. She dominated that whole night. Next, she kept asking me about my boy who came thru one day in his hot BMW chromed out whip. She saw that and liked it. Asked me about him. So, we did the three again. This whole thing about he and I touching. Let me explain.
I told Nishay that I was into some other sh*sh. I’m very upfront with the ladies because they would never suspect anything about me. I tell it like it is. Nishay knew I went both ways. I don’t do it all the time, but I have in the past. Nishay knew all about that. Most of my friends do. That’s just me. Nishay was cool because she’s bi, too. I got her the implants because we was having some beef about some other stuff and I wanted to make it up to her. She said she hated her breasts….Nishay been trying to save for implants for like 5 years. I got them for her, but when she found out that it was the same place my ex got hers done at, she flipped ‘tam ’bout how I messed her up by sending her to a cheap place….I ain’t got no skeletons everybody know me. I didn’t love her. Sorry, if she did. She was a cool chick to have fun with. Do some things with. I love myself. One love. (By the way, she owe me half on the celly bill)