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		<title>By: Miss Andi K.</title>
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		<dc:creator>Miss Andi K.</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 06 Jul 2010 16:22:12 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Bitter Lamar?

I think that Obama is considered to be an attractive man by old-school standards. His ability to articulate his point while being a poised and debonair man are what make him attractive.

I have actually had the privelege of meeting him, and while I did not find him physically attractive before, I did walk away finding him attractive afterward. He has an air about him that is magnetic. Sort of like Bill Clinton.</description>
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<p>I think that Obama is considered to be an attractive man by old-school standards. His ability to articulate his point while being a poised and debonair man are what make him attractive.</p>
<p>I have actually had the privelege of meeting him, and while I did not find him physically attractive before, I did walk away finding him attractive afterward. He has an air about him that is magnetic. Sort of like Bill Clinton.</p>
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		<title>By: Lamar</title>
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		<dc:creator>Lamar</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 08 Nov 2009 13:03:48 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Okay Timeout! Jesus Take The Wheel! For the Record Obama is not attractive!!!!!!!!!!! I stay right outside of Dc and women 16-60 thinks he is cute!!!!!!!!!!!! Keep it real if Obama was in the club or walking down the street most women would keep it moving..

Now since he went to a great college and is President he is so hot???? So now it sounds like he is Denzel status or Morris Chestnut.When a man get&#039;s to a certain level in life woman come out the woodworks...</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Okay Timeout! Jesus Take The Wheel! For the Record Obama is not attractive!!!!!!!!!!! I stay right outside of Dc and women 16-60 thinks he is cute!!!!!!!!!!!! Keep it real if Obama was in the club or walking down the street most women would keep it moving..</p>
<p>Now since he went to a great college and is President he is so hot???? So now it sounds like he is Denzel status or Morris Chestnut.When a man get&#8217;s to a certain level in life woman come out the woodworks&#8230;</p>
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		<title>By: daphne</title>
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		<dc:creator>daphne</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 07 Nov 2009 20:30:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>There seems to be a bit of reading between the lines going on to make what First Lady Obama said more palatable.  Not that her advice is bad, per se, it isn&#039;t.  I agree with EbonyLolita that a healthy romantic relationship can bring out the best in someone, although no one can make another person completely happy or whole.    

I do find it interesting that, usually, only women are advised to go beyond looks and look into character.  I also think it&#039;s interesting that advice is coming from a woman with an attractive, fit husband.  I&#039;m not sure why there isn&#039;t more advice, in general, about finding a balance - looks and character are usually framed as either/or, which I don&#039;t understand.  First Lady Obama doesn&#039;t say looks are bad, but why the emphasis on how long cute lasts? Are only unattractive men those of character?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>There seems to be a bit of reading between the lines going on to make what First Lady Obama said more palatable.  Not that her advice is bad, per se, it isn&#8217;t.  I agree with EbonyLolita that a healthy romantic relationship can bring out the best in someone, although no one can make another person completely happy or whole.    </p>
<p>I do find it interesting that, usually, only women are advised to go beyond looks and look into character.  I also think it&#8217;s interesting that advice is coming from a woman with an attractive, fit husband.  I&#8217;m not sure why there isn&#8217;t more advice, in general, about finding a balance &#8211; looks and character are usually framed as either/or, which I don&#8217;t understand.  First Lady Obama doesn&#8217;t say looks are bad, but why the emphasis on how long cute lasts? Are only unattractive men those of character?</p>
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		<title>By: Lamar</title>
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		<dc:creator>Lamar</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 07 Nov 2009 14:27:58 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Sounds like the problem is women are single and getting older and you looking for perfection when you not perfect yourself.....</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Sounds like the problem is women are single and getting older and you looking for perfection when you not perfect yourself&#8230;..</p>
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		<title>By: First Lady Michelle&#39;s Dating Advice? &#124; Alphanista™ &#124; Newarticletoday.com Blog</title>
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		<title>By: Friday Link Love: somebody save the children &#124; HipHopMuse.com</title>
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		<title>By: Maryann</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 06 Nov 2009 19:16:19 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I hope these are lessons are women can glean from</description>
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		<title>By: EbonyLolita</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 06 Nov 2009 18:29:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I believe in completing yourself in terms of your personal growth. However, there is a sense of TRUTH that a good relationship can bring out the best in you when you&#039;re with that person. So.... she&#039;s right b/c &quot;being cute&quot; ain&#039;t gonna cut it when your looking for a Husband which should be a Lifetime Commitment. The qualities that the mate holds is something that can either make or break you. 

Love, EbonyLolita ;)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I believe in completing yourself in terms of your personal growth. However, there is a sense of TRUTH that a good relationship can bring out the best in you when you&#8217;re with that person. So&#8230;. she&#8217;s right b/c &#8220;being cute&#8221; ain&#8217;t gonna cut it when your looking for a Husband which should be a Lifetime Commitment. The qualities that the mate holds is something that can either make or break you. </p>
<p>Love, EbonyLolita <img src='http://www.alphanista.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: ThatOne</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 06 Nov 2009 17:34:10 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>This rings so true to home! Someone will take her advice and say &quot;see, that is why I am still single because no one completes me...&quot;  WHATEVA!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This rings so true to home! Someone will take her advice and say &#8220;see, that is why I am still single because no one completes me&#8230;&#8221;  WHATEVA!</p>
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