By Special Guest Contributor Alicia Marie Rivers
Here are 6 things you should and should not do.
Is it ever a good idea to mix business with pleasure?
Believe or not, yes! Alphanistas, what I’m suggesting is a way to obtain a person’s interest and/or confidence by utilizing a hot chick principle – seduction. Now for those of you with a skeptical thought or snicker, seduction is not about sex. It is a method to penetrate a person’s defenses and create surrender. Simply put, it is a manner of teasing the imagination by stimulating a particular craving, such as the chance to possess a fantasy figure or idea. So, with a pretty thought (“I walk as though the world is at my feet, in my hands and between my ears, arms and thighs…”) an alluring appearance and only showing glimpses of flesh, here are the do’s and don’ts on using your feminine wiles to construct an aura of desirability:
…make eye contact.
…listen as if he/she is the most interesting person in the world.
…enjoy yourself. Let the duty be a delight.
…compliment the individual (tie, color, shoes, etc)
You SHOULD NOT…
…show a lot of skin (i.e. micro-mini and a low-cut blouse/dress, etc).
…be afraid of exercising affectionate gestures like a gentle touch on shoulder or elbow
…be unprepared. Intelligence is sexy!
…go overboard with compliments. You could appear desperate & overly obsessed with appearances.
…be loud. Your voice is an instrument and can be a harmonious tool to one’s ears.
…ignore negative body language (i.e. crossed arms, slouching, heavy sighing, etc).
Guest Blogger, Alicia Marie Rivers is a sex appeal/self esteem coach and author of The Pretty Thoughts of a Hot Chick (available at www.amazon.com, www.target.com & www.barnesandnoble.com). She is also the founder & editor of the sexy, new guilty pleasure with style, www.prettythoughtsofahotchick.com.