Let’s face it lots of people are struggling right now, but not everyone. I once heard a man say: “A woman should never be broke”.
Huh? Well, if you think about it, it does make some sense. He was pointing out that a woman will always have something a man will pay for or a woman is more likely to get financial help than a man. So, let’s look at this.
It all brings up the question of whether it’s okay to have sex for money. Not in a street walking kind of way, but in a sort of arrangement. Follow me. Benefactor. Sponsor. Sugardaddy. Are women who choose these relationships, bad? They say that they want to have a monetary exchange for their time with a well-paid, damn it, rich man. But it’s not prostitution because it’s more than sex but a business arrangement.
For instance, the typical sugar daddy relationship is one where a very wealthy, rich, or influential man “takes care of” the needs of a young, beautiful, ambitious girl who “takes cares of” him. Some of these relationships are successful, many aren’t. However, in one that I am privy to, the sugar baby ended up saving all the stacks her sugar daddy gave her and owns several turn-key businesses that she bought with his additional help. He, in turn, received good sex, companionship, and no headaches. Also, he enjoyed helping her. It took them 3 months, a trip to Tahiti, before they even had sex (in Tahiti). This isn’t typical but it happens.
So, are women bad who do this? What about women who have sex to make a man commit to them? What about women who sleep around with no clear objectives but “having fun”? In the sugar daddy/baby case it is “arranged”, it is expected so there’s very little surprises about expectations. There are actually sites for women who want this type of lifestyle like www.seekingarrangment.com where they claim to verify that a man is indeed high net worth.
90% of people will tell you this is bad because 1) they never had the guts 2) they never will 3) the only thing they got to bargain that anyone would want is a $10 Starbucks card. If you look closely, at the end of the day, most people are seeking arrangements with their heart or wallets.
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