Well, let’s look at one definition of seduction: to win over; attract; entice. And another: to lead or draw away, as from principles, faith, or allegiance. With both of these definitions in mind, then yes. And you should.
This has more to do with psychology than sex. You did know, that there is more than 1 way to get things done in this world, and more than 1 meaning to everything. Right? Here, we’re focusing on “seducing” a woman who has something you want abstract that you want–be it friendship, access, or just someone good to have in your corner.
Seduction methods should be used on everyone. In order to seduce anyone, you must be disarm them first. Leave them vulnerable, and wanting more, so that they are easier to lead. Among women, this can be something new, as women are trained to be “nice” to each other. But in a world of high stakes, you can be nice, but you also need to know how to get your way with other women. You need to be able to have them give you things that will you propel you.
Women hold the keys to lots of information–whether it be that handsome, wealthy man who is just become available, the position at the Governor’s office she’s scouting for, or just being close to someone whose advice can change your life and destiny. Naturally, these types of women are normally suspicious of other women who come around. They put up road blocks and keep their social circles tight and close knit. But if there is anyone in this world who is going to stop you from getting ahead, it’s going to be another woman.
I’ve been “seduced”. I’m an easy catch, tho. But there are some women who will make you “earn” your stripes. First, quickly bond with other women by using their same gestures, almost like with men. Somehow, people subconsciously think you are “soulmates” when you do this. It is also possible to have a soulmate of the same sex that is nonsexual, but that is another post. Next, compliment her, ask questions and make her talk, even if you’re not listening to a syllable of it. If you see something she likes whether in the store or other, tell her about it. Also, touch her. Studies show when you touch someone you talk to immediately forms an instant closeness or comfortableness. Make sure it’s at the arm, or hair, don’t touch any other part of her if you don’t want to be embarrassed.
There may be women who want to take this further with you, as in sexual, be aware and prepared for that. Furthermore, position yourself as a woman who has something to offer too, find out what she wants out of life or a goal, and tell her you already did it or have it. Lie, if need be. If she asks for it, then get it–pronto. This is good to use to peek her interest even more. Remember, to be valuable to anyone you have to have something to leverage.
Finally, be wise with who you do this with. If you look at life as one big seduction game from the real estate agent to the bus driver, you’ll find people, and life, are easier to deal with. Who said seduction should just be between lovers? Women know women who are more “friendlier” than others. So, don’t use this approach on someone who going to freak out because you touch their shoulder. I don’t have to tell an Alphanista that and other obvious signs you should avoid. I’m talking about dealing with power broking women, women who understand that the mind of a woman is very much like a man when it comes to seduction. They will go along with the ride, enticed by your unusual ways. They understand that at the end of board meeting, we all want results.
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