Mariah and Nick
I guess it depends on who you ask. On Blogxilla, they list a couple of reasons why:
–Older Women Want It More
–They Know What They Want
–Sugar Mama Possibilities
–Likes Sports and Porn
I’d like to add a few:
–Older Women Have A Better Handle On Their Emotions
–Older Women Can’t Be Bothered Listening To Your Winding Story About What “Really” Had Happened At The Party
–Older Women Have More Than Just Milk, Eggs And Cheese In the Fridge
–Older Women Know When To Let A Man Go
I’m sure there’s more….Don’t knock it, till you try it.
Idk how realistic the older woman/younger man setup would be, unless that man doesnt care how many– and in many cases if at all– children he has. Other than that I can only see this particular gender-age difference only working with an alpha woman and a beta male because the whole relationship seems matriarchal and emasculating for most male ego’s….hence nick cannon and mariah carey: he is at her beck and call following her all around the globe. She is not doing that for him nor is there mutual push-and-pull. When I see Nick I forget that he is her husband because dude seems more like Mariah’s lil pet. Who wants a gopher for a husband?!
I honestly think it depends on the individuals maturity level paired with their life experiences.Some younger women have a decent head on their shoulders while some have a lot of growing up to do.
This “older woman, younger man” thing only really works with the stars. Mariah Carey is Nick Canon’s fantasy woman. He grew up wanting her and when he was in a position to make a play – he did. I’m sure he said to himself growing up – “I would never treat her like Tommy Motola!” Mariah can be confident in the fact that Nick ain’t going no where because his whole life she’s been the shit.
It’s like how all regular guys say they would never treat Hallie Berry like Wesley, David, and Eric did – please, if Halley gave me a chance, I’d worship the ground she walked on – until I ran into her Daddy issues – and then I’d probably be in the same boat as those before me, but because she got dough and access – I may just let it slide
Ladies – don’t fool yourselves. Unless you are the Mrs. Parker to your young Smokey or Craig, you are probably just doing the same thing baller guys do with women with kids….shoplifting.
Other downside of older women. The greater the difference in age the less likely she can be viewed as wife material or a long term mate. Also younger men that are not ready for their advanced sexual skills could be asking for trouble. Nevertheless, older women have the clear advantage if things are close. However, I must repeat younger women who have an older women mind set are already taken or wife material and are the highest valued/ranking single women for single men.
Yes. Why? because older women realize the game of relationships and accept the game for what it is. Older women are no longer into playing games and are more upfront/honest. Older women are willing to go the extra mile to please their man. They don’t have to be taught sexually and are overall more open sexually to different things. Know how to cook, clean and take care of whatever home task. Older women have a clear picture of what they want. They are already established, comfortable with themselves and their place in the world. In short older women handle their business in relation to their man. They keep their man healthy, feed, and satisfied sexually. If only younger women had a older women mind set. Although there is downside and that downside being their age. Nevertheless older women upside far out way their negatives in comparison to younger women. Younger women that have older woman’s mind set are either taken or wife material.
“Let’s all agree that men like anything new, and older women isnt exactly NEW.”
It may be true that men like anything “new” but new can mean something different or never tried before. That doesn’t automatically rule out older women.
It all depends on where you are in life. A younger woman who doesn’t have life experience and is all about partying and drinking can make an older man bored real quick. Then again men mature much slower than women so they may both be in the same station in life.
Further I’ve had men tell me that they’ll pursue younger women because younger women aren’t as hung up about being in a relationship, they can get sex easier, and younger women are sometimes much more naïve thus it’s easier for the man to dominate the relationship. Their words not mine, I’m just the messenger.
I noticed that when I was in my late teens early 20′s I always thought that older women were hating on me, but at that age you tend to be a little arrogant and younger people grew up thinking that someone is always hating on them or jealous and its just not true. Now that I am in my mid-twenties, right in the middle I see both spectrums. I do not envy or feel insecure around younger girls, but for some reason, they think that I do (smh) but I pull all of there young lil men when I am out. So to me it seems like its opposite, that younger girls are a little more threatned. NOW let me talk about when I am in a older crowd, I am usually the youngest one around, there is a sense of calmness around. They are not worried about no other women around (this also depends on where you go) but I view older women content on whats going on with them and who they are having conversations with, while younger girls are looking around trying to figure out who hating on them or what the chick looking at, making them quite annoying and not all that appealing. So my point is, I don’t think that it matters if your new or old, its about how you carry yourself no matter what and no matter where you are, and honestly older women do it better, period.
Yeah, a lot of older women know what they want, the question is do younger men know what THEY want? From my experience, no, but then again I am 32 and for me to be the older woman would mean dating someone in their early 20′s, I’m not going to rule it out but I don’t know about that. I just think some relationships work and some don’t. As far as Mariah and Nick, the verdict is still out- they only been married for a millisecond. Wish them luck though.
I think older women have a lot to offer younger men as older men have to offer younger women. It’s just society views women as having a shelf life of 30 and then we go bad. I think if you are mature and want to be in a relationship you have to challenge your own perceptions of what’s old and young. I think the best people in the world are young at heart- I see that in Janet and Jermaine Dupree’s relationship, as far as I know they are still going strong.
Im probably considered younger by most people and older women act so jealous around me if they are so confident why are they so insecure around us? Let’s all agree that men like anything new, and older women isnt exactly NEW.
What an older woman isn’t is the man’s mama so he shouldn’t be looking for a mother figure.
It\’s a state mind. I\’m older and I have expectations. I can be hot to handle, I don\’t cook, and the only thing in my fridge right now is juice, and my meals come from the freezer.
I may not be what a man wants right now. That\’s okay, too.
it depends on what the man is looking for — if he’s looking for some good oral skills, sex, and meals, and a peace of mind, then an older women is a best.