Whatever happened with just asking a gal out on a date and see what happens?
A couple of days ago Oprah had a show about fathers, and some who chose to be fathers without women.
When the Chinese said “may you live in interesting times”, they meant that as a warning. Here’s the excerpt from the NY Times Style section some time ago:
Joe Kurtzer, 45, an executive with a financial services company in the Boston area, said he was 39 and fresh from a failed relationship in 2002 when he decided to raise a child on his own. “I didn’t want to be 50 years old having a child,” he said.
Why not just work on building a relationship with a nice gal and have a baby, and yes, maybe get married? When did this become the last resort instead of the first? Who would choose to raise a child by themselves? On the Oprah show there was a man with like 16 kids or something. He works so he’s not there 100% of the time, and the responsibility must fall on the other children.
An alpha would mostly likely never go that route without feeling like a failure of some sorts. Just stuff to think about….