Alpha female: An Alpha Female is a dominant female in a group. She dates as many males as she wants, is strong and confident, and a hard worker as well as often busy. She is usually sarcastic because she’s powerful and playful. Alpha Females are intelligent, intellectual problem solvers; an alpha understands that dressing up or sexy increases her power in society, so she does it.
There are so many reports out there about unhappy women. At the New Year, many reassess that elusive “happy” feeling and how to get it. More reports that say that men are happier than women these days.
How did that happen? Weren’t men the ones who were overworked, sexually unfulfilled and harboring suppressed emotional and professional desires? These days more women have great jobs, bodies, homes and cars than ever before. But when the stats come in, they complain they want more. More of what? Men. What else? Money. Anything more? Better body. So, what is stopping most of these women from attaining that? Time. That all makes perfect sense. If you work 40-70 hours a week, how can anyone find time to go the gym and cook healthier meals without making a conscience effort. An effort that probably was followed by months or even years of broken promises and stop and go instances. If you don’t work, motivation is another issue. What I’m saying is: Everyone needs help. Especially when it comes to focus and things to do. This includes vision, a blueprint and a design for how you want your life, or even day to unfold.
What’s more important are the alpha qualities in a woman that makes this happen. The alpha qualities center around your strongest self. It’s the self that is not afraid to mess up, takes a leap, a risk. It even may get itself in trouble, in uncomfortable situations just to grow more confident and more resilient. Living an “alpha” life is exciting, new, unpredictable, and full of happy surprises. It’s not for everyone.
Some alpha females navigate with a “don’t care attitude”. They seem to get everything with little effort. They seem to get every man they meet to pop the question, every job that suits their needs, every opportunity that slips through the fingers of others. At the end, they say, “Well, it just kinda happened. I can’t explain.” Other alphas have a more direct approach coupled with all kinds of lists, rituals, ideas, visions boards that keep them exactly in line. Their plans come to pass, too. Not to mention the alpha female’s uncanny ability to make men chase her.
This is not to say that everything an alpha desires she gets. But what she doesn’t get, she learns to accept. This is where others fail. They keep chasing. But an alpha remembers: “Flee from things that flee from thee.” Or in others words–Keep it moving.
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It is also HARD being alpha. I used to get depressed alot but now I am satisfied not particularly happy since that fluctuates with my cycle LOL but satisfied.
I was always the type to watch and learn from the sidelines until I got fed up with everybody getting ahead of me. I did some drastic changes in 08/09 like dropping 100 pounds, moving to a new city and losing my virginity. I am 27. I have a better job now, a good husband, and a better body! I stayed focused and took some crazy risks! Alpha all the way.
I totally agree with this article. Alpha females have some type of plan and/or direction for their life and plan it in a way that suits their wants and desires.