ADVICE: My Girl Is Driving Me Away!
I know you don’t probably get a lot of email from men but I need help!
Me and my girl have been together for the last 2 years. She got my kid, a little less than a year old. Cool. So, all was good until the baby came. She started being more demanding, wanting more money, and my time. Before you go into seeing me as a dude who’s not in my child’s life, I am. We live together. I take care of all the bills with the help of my second job. I am never home. I’m working hard. So what does she want more money for? To shop, eat out with girlfriends, and expensive ass baby clothes. $45 baby shoes? I’m basically an ATM. I could be an ATM outside of the relationship and be with someone who can sex me when I want and be home when I get there. I want to leave her. Like yesterday. But she got my kid. But everyday that passes, I start to hate her a little more. Sometimes, I even fantasize about her not ever coming back home so it could just be me and my son. I don’t want to leave my son, because if she is like this now with me in the house, imagine how it’s going to be if I leave. Drama.
What should I do?
Almost broke in Jersey City, NJ,
I know EXACTLY what I would tell Keith, but this is OPEN advice. Can anyone see what I see in this email?