ADVICE: HOT FOR PROFESSOR
I am a star on the rise with everything going for me but the graduate degree which will open doors to the career of my dreams.
I never date because I can’t seem to meet a man who matches my shine. Until him… He is intelligent, accomplished, degreed, handsome and there’s a definite attraction between us. I’ve caught him staring at me plenty of times and we share nervous glances when we run into each other. The down side: He’s my professor. I want to know him on a personal level because when we’re having heated debates in class everyone says it’s as though we are in our own little world, far above the level of most of my classmates. I don’t have a crush. I am simply curious about him. I think together we’d do some big things and shake up our profession. I have 2 years left of graduate school before we are officially colleagues but I want to get the ball rolling now. Why wait?
Why wait? Because he can be fired.
If you must get to know him: Keep professor close by, but comfortably at a distance. You may have to initiate advances and get togethers, and such (but I caution against being alone). Try to understand because he can lose his job. So don’t expect him to “chase” you. I am understand “curious” but it often leads to curious sex, curious kisses, and curious touches. Do you think he can keep a secret? Are other students watching you? All it takes is one bitter student to start rumors that he is showing you preferential treatment.