ADVICE: I Want To Go From A “Side” To A “Buy”
I have been having sex with this guy for close to eight months now, your typical friends with benefits, but I have been in love with him for most of the time.
Around three months ago I decided to tell him how I really feel about him, he was shocked and said he needed time to process the info, so he got back to me after some time and told me that he really liked me but could not commit at the time because he had to achieve some things before he could think of dating, we were fresh out of collage then with no job or nothing, so I understood where he was coming from. I, putting my pride to the floor, said that I would wait for him to get his house in order and see how things would go.
Fact is I think I made a mistake, because this guy is the most arrogant being on the face of the planet, he knows he’s got me right where he wants me. He says things like, I know you can never keep away from me, you are the one who’s in love… I try to be assertive and tell him to go to hell but I am afraid that he might leave, I know this is against all logic but what can I say, am sprung.
How can I go from a lease to a buy? Or is it too late?
Misguided in love,
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