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Archive | February, 2010

Weekend Rewind: ADVICE: I Want To Be A Submissive Woman

Enjoy a classic! (Due to the popularity of this blog it has been extended. LMAO) I have a situation. To the outside world, I have a good, successful man who takes care of me. But unbeknownst to everyone, I am the one who is paying all the bills, making all the decisions and basically running [...]

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A TopCoat Is Too Sexy For Words

by Maryann in Advice

But I have words. On the Q train Friday evening I couldn’t help but notice or salivate at the handsome men in topcoats. They’re coats, but not really. Called “overcoats” sometimes. They go best with suits. It has a sort of vintage-y 1940s-1950 “Mad Men” type of appeal to it. It’s also very masculine. It [...]

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Good Life: Zanzibar

by admin in The Good Life

“An alpha female traveling alone always finds people who want to take care of her”—Anonymous By Guest Blogger Amyrae I’ve found that the most gratifying way to experience culture while traveling, is to do it through the eyes of the locals. Whether you go with a friend who is a native of the land, or [...]

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Ladies, Stop Second Guessing Your Man

by admin in Archives

By Guest Blogger Mila Doubts? About my man? Never. Well… All of us, even the most confident Alphanistas, have doubts about our relationships at times. We can drive ourselves mad questioning little things. However, it is not ok to snoop. I know some ladies who disagree and think snooping in their man’s email or Facebook [...]

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Olympic Alphanistas?

by admin in Advice

By Guest Blogger Mila I admire athletes for their hard work and extreme dedication to their sports. They train hard and try to push their bodies to attain peak physical conditions. They also know that at anytime one serious injury can mean an end to their sporting careers. The Olympics showcase the world’s best athletes [...]

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Friends Are Your Friends Until They Become Uncomfortable

by Maryann in Lifestyle

You ever noticed that? Uncomfortable could mean that moment when a friend is forced to look at you or their life “differently”. Suddenly when you start experiencing happiness, or even sadness, or perhaps a personality weakness they disappear. Or they begin to feel the rawness of the relationship that people are people and you should [...]

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Ladies’ Night? or Ladies’ Night!

by admin in Lifestyle

By Guestblogger Amyrae They are there for us when we’re down, when we want to celebrate, or when we just need to vent…our sisters always have our backs. Girlfriends share a special bond, which can do wonders for the soul. In my mind ladies night is something special, something to be cherished, and should happen [...]

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Good Life: Cruisin’

by admin in Archives, The Good Life

An alpha female loves the “good life”… By Guest Blogger Mila I’ve got VACATION on the mind. I love traveling, and if I won the lottery today, I’d be gone tomorrow. Honestly, I am so ready to peace out of my job and peace out of the freezing cold winter. I’d like to trade all [...]

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Give Your Relationship A Makeover

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By Guest Blogger Mila For those Alphanistas in long-term relationships, you know that sometimes you can fall into a rut. Keep the spark going in your relationship by being creative. Relationships take work, but they stay fun as long as you make them fun. Turn the Heat on in Bed Last but not least…forget about [...]

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Weekend Rewind: ADVICE: My Man Doesn’t Call Me!

by Maryann in Advice, Relationships

In honor of Valentine’s Day! Enjoy this classic… ___________________________ I’m a 28 year old woman. I make great money, have my own home and no children. I have an awesome boyfriend who is by all standards my equal. He’s 34, stable employment, a homeowner and childless. We’ve been together for a year and a half. [...]