A classic! Don’t you like the play on words? _______________________ What’s wrong with liking a man with money? Not for money, but with money. It’s not normally something most women flaunt. They’re afraid to admit it, but why. Men have no problem admitting they want a beautiful woman. We all know there is more to [...]
Alphanista Moment: Michelle Says Sit Down
As an alpha female at times it can hard to just “be”. You watch your alpha male from afar and you beam at his success. For a moment, you get to rest and let him do the work. But when he throws the spotlight back on you, your alpha side comes back. “Here we go” [...]
Weekend Rewind: Signs of a High Maintenance Man
by Maryann in Uncategorized
A high maintenance needs lots of reassurance and attention, just like a high maintenance woman. Sometimes, he’s mistaken for a metrosexual, but he’s not into primping as much. He’s a co-dependent people pleaser. Folks have little respect for him, that is why he relies 110% on others. He’s a bloodsucker, girl. Watch out! 1) He’s [...]
Let’s Talk About (Pep) What?
By Guest Blogger Jules Sinclair I gave myself a few episodes of VH1 Let’s Talk About Pep, but all I learned was why so many women are by themselves. It’s pretty pathetic. So, they’re gonna get dating help from a single dating coach at Essence? That’s like the blind leading the deaf, leading the blind [...]
Alpha Cure: Self Doubt
You finally found that man/woman you were ready for, but you doubt they’ll stick around. You stumbled upon your dream job but you doubt they’ll like you. You just bought a new Bobbi Brown foundation, but doubt it’ll be like your Prescriptives favorite. These are all the whispers of self-sabotage getting ready to make an [...]
Don’t Let Your Girlfriends Fuel The Fire
By Guest Blogger Toi Most of the time, our friends have our best interest at heart. They want to see us happy, prosperous, and living life to its fullest. When we’re experiencing issues and drama in our lives, particularly pertaining to romantic relationships, our friends are typically the first people we turn to. While it’s [...]
Weekend Rewind: Do Women Cheat Better Than Men?
by Maryann in Lifestyle, Relationships
This one made us think. Enjoy! ______________________________ Read this on Necole Bitchie this morning. Ms. Murphy was able to get away from cheating on her Strahan for over a year. He installed a GPS device on her car and found out. He’s an excerpt from the New York Post: Things came to a head Feb. [...]
Want To Guest Blog For Alphanista?
I am swamped and would love to start posting your guest blogs! A few guest bloggers come with their own ideas and we work together to make sure it hasn’t been blogged about before and how to fit it in. I also may edit a guest blogger’s piece if it needs work. Also looking for [...]
MY LET GO PLAN: New Year
by admin in Uncategorized
By Guest Blogger *Jada Rahman, I purchased 9 Tuesdays last month as a 2010 move to be engaged by before 2011. I made a deal with myself that I would be ready to take it to the next step to have a man in my life. Unlike other females, my problem was not that I [...]
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