Archive | September, 2009
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Alphanista Mind Moves To Ace That Interview

In the Alphanista Inner Circle forums, the topic of how stressful job searching can be came up. You need a job, and want one yesterday.  You have been sending out resumes for 3 months or more, maybe a few interviews.  How can you maximize your interview performance?  Yes, I used performance as if you were [...]

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Black Mothers To Blame For Single Black Women?

Black Mothers To Blame For Single Black Women?

This post has more to do with someone else’s thoughts rather than mine.  Recently, I wrote a blog for Zabeth’s Corner called Why Are 70% of Black Women Single? I received an email that stood out from the stack I receive every week.  This was a perspective I just recently began to consider.  For instance: [...]

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POLL:  What Do You Want More Than Anything Else?

POLL: What Do You Want More Than Anything Else?

When folks get asked this question they take forever to answer. It’s all about priorities.  If you had one chance to make something happen right now, what would that be?  It can’t be money, love, and a nice home all at once.  The way things “just happen” is when they are specifically mentioned and focused [...]

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Weekend Rewind: Dating White–A Black Man Speaks

Weekend Rewind: Dating White–A Black Man Speaks

Blast from the past!  This lasted about a week with various spin off blogs, enjoy! ________________________________ Here’s a rebuttal to the post from last week “I Date White And I’m Alrright” on The Thought Remixer blog, The Difference Between White Boys and Black Men. It’s long but I pulled some commentary from this black man [...]

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Dear Alphanista, I CONFESS….

Dear Alphanista, I CONFESS….

I returned from vacation with a inbox jammed with advice emails and well, you know, confessions, too!  Remember, that?  So, in case you are feeling a little guilty about something you are not alone 1)  I have a crush on a much younger woman.  I dream and fantasize about her like nobody’s business.  Every time [...]

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Tip 17: How To Be An Alphanista

“Living, not dreaming, Loving, not waiting…” Too many women are caught up in a dream state. Unrealistic expectations of success and love.  Okay, so the sky is the limit.  You can have the house on the hill, and the man who makes 8 figures.  But would you be happy with the house in the suburbs [...]

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Marrying Moms, Dads Need Apply

Applications are now being accepted for Marry Your Baby Daddy Day 2009 all expense paid wedding with the works in NYC on September 24. If you are a couple, apply today.  Apply here asap.  Open to all. Check us out on CNN Black in America on Feb 25, 26.  (comments are disabled for this post) [...]

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