Is it just me, or does Lamar’s head looked photoshopped on this cover? I have spent too many hours staring at a computer screen. So don’t mind me (back to working on novel!)
ADVICE: He Doesn’t Want Kids!
Dear Alphanista, I live with this man who is an answer to my dreams. I am 37, and he is 52. We have been together for 5 years. He takes care of it all. He adores me, and we share so much in common. We are not engaged, but want to be. And get married, [...]
Six Things To Do When Other Women Worship You
by Maryann in Archives, Lifestyle
By Guest Blogger Toi As an Alphanista, you are at the top of the food chain. You know it, and so do other women. You look like you have things together, and sometimes friends and associates envy this and try to adapt your style for themselves. And as last week’s “Clingy” post suggested, women are [...]
POLL: Would You Get Married In Less Than A Year?
by Maryann in Uncategorized
We all know a “certain couple” got married this weekend. No one seems to be as interested on who these two are, as they are interested in how long they knew each other. Some say it wasn’t long enough. One month? I was checking the amount of hateful posts online about it. All, from women. [...]
Who Is This Black Privileged Class…
Last year, some folks may have read what PB & Caviar boutique owner Evin Cosby (the woman on the left in the photo) said about relating to Obama because of her privileged background and not speaking “hip hop”. I mean, I understand. But do privileged people, talk about how privileged they are and can’t relate? [...]
Weekend Rewind: I Don’t Owe Women Anything! Part II
by admin in Lifestyle, Relationships
Wow, remember the drama with this one!? Enjoy! By Guestblogger, Deja Moore I don’t expect a bunch of women to agree with me. I didn’t start this post to make friends, build alliances. I know how women like to group together and agree with each other for safety and acceptance. I am not that woman. [...]
What Are You Doing This Weekend
by Maryann in Uncategorized
Over at YBF they have photos of CBC this weekend. The Congressional Black Caucus convention is one of the stomping grounds for single gals looking for suitors and a job. Supposedly it’s where Spike Lee met his wife. Oh, and the Black MBA thing is this weekend too. Enjoy!
5 Reasons Why Manipulation Is Not A Dirty Word
Did you know there was more than one definition for this word? Most know manipulation to mean to skewer someone else’s feelings in an unfair manner. “Unfair” is debatable, but let’s not focus on the little things. There is another definition: 2. to handle, manage, or use, esp. with skill, in some process of [...]
Nene Leakes: The Anti-Michelle Obama
By Guest Blogger Nadia Lewis I am so tired of reading all the praises about this Nene Leakes. She is far from alpha. Compared to First Lady Michelle, she meets all the media stereotypes of a loud, black woman who is clownish and laughable. It’s strange to me that Nene is getting all of this [...]
Need Help Creating That “Shift”?
I snagged some more life coaching deals for you on upcoming programs with the Handel Group: $200 off the next Dream Body coaching series; $100 off the next Manifesting (Law of Attraction) Coaching series and $100 off the October Coaching Crash Course, just for mentioning secret code (subscribers please check your email). If you know [...]
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