I Like Hillary

If any other woman had said what Hillary said I would just chum it up to them being “oversensitive”.

But this is Hil. It sounded a lot better coming from her mouth. I could just see Bill in the back shaking his head with that little sly smile of his.  Hil has been through so much.  I could only imagine the fuss those two make at home together.   But they are a team.  Could you imagine a divorce?

Folks talk about Will and Jada breaking up as the end of the world, but I think it’s Hil and Bill.  Hil is very much the wife, and very much clear on their roles. Judge for yourself.

VOTE: Who Is The Alpha Female?

It’s been a while since we did one of these!

The winner last time was Martha Stewart.

Below are some recent nominations into the Alphanista Hall of Fame.

For the first time, we included a man   So, which one of these alphas deserves a permanent place in the Alphanista Hall of Fame?

Weekend Rewind: Virgin Monologues: I’m A Virgin

Enjoy this classic!

Guest Blogger, Gladys Wilson (OhSoSweet) (26)

An alpha female can be a virgin and proud of it.

Today’s virgin is a strong woman. She is goal driven, meticulous, seeks justice for all, and is trustworthy. She is also pure in heart, spirit mind and soul. It is her job and duty to be the exactor of social justice and lead by example. You can believe that a man will never bring her down, her goals in life are to be the best daughter, sister, employer, employee, student, co-worker and human that she can ever be.

However, most of all today’s virgin is a woman on an ultimate mission, a mission that so many other powerful women that have come before her have undertaken. Nothing and absolutely nothing can deter her from this mission. There are two things. Only two things to remember about this woman. She will do anything and I mean any thing to protect the dignity and the sovereignty of her mission. What is this mission you ask? Well let me tell you.

Her mission is to be the best mother and lover she can be. This woman will go to many lengths to see that this happens. There is nothing in the world that she holds more sacred than her man, marriage and her children. Oh yes she is a professional, and she will work, but her children and husband will always come first.

NO MATTER WHAT!!!!

Here are some ways to make sure you stay a virgin:

1.    Make up your mind not to have sex before you go out with the girls.

2.    If a man wants to have a long-term relationship with you, be honest and tell him up front. If you want it, put a ring on it.

3.    Let every man know that you are open to talk and have fun, but not open for sex (that way they don’t have any expectations)

4.    Always try and go out with your man, don’t stay indoors and in intimate settings

5.    After a wonderful date, leave him at the door, no nightcaps.

6.    It is all in the body language; say you are sexy but not wanting.

(Stay tuned for more)
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Accessorize Your Sexy Pt 1

By Guest Blogger, Goldie

I’ve told you so much.

You should have no problem fishing through the racks and finding the items that suit you best. Now you need to finish the look. Accessories make the outfit complete. You can’t just walk outside with a strapless dress and expect the outfit to flow. One needs to invest in some pieces that will carry your garb to the next level.

I think everyone needs three bags. An evening bag in a neutral color is dealbreaker. You can’t wear a  busy dress and a busy clutch with the expectation of being photographed well. One also needs a Large Tote Bag. You need that bag to do some slight travel with you without bulging or busting at the seams. You absolutely must get an everyday bag. It needs to be functional for work and for happy hour. Once you have these items then by all means go ahead and cultivate your bag collection.

Jewelry is a different subject. You need studs. Depending on your age you could get diamonds and pearls or some cute, playful items. Hoop Earrings always do the trick, just don’t look like Jenny from the Block with hoops that could function as bangles as well. Speaking of Bangles, go wild. Get texture, play with widths and placement. Avoid the overly plastic look that these teeny bopper chain stores offer. No one looks good with a plastic purple 2 inch bangle… no one.

Necklaces are very hard to discuss. I can only say that if you have a fatty neck, a la Kimore Lee Simmons then stay away from chokers. It’s not a good look. Rings are so much fun. You need a good cocktail ring. Anything after that is to pacify your style. I see rings as  frivilous joys. They don’t have to exist in wardrobe but it is the little things count, huh?

Headgear is a touchy subject, mainly because your hair can cause certain looks to be unattainable. One should have a great hat. Mainly for the winter time. I’m not going to say which one because a trilby can look good on you, while a bowler may suit someone else’s fancy. Go look around. During the cold months, I rock these cute leopard print earmuffs. Those are my babies!

Do you have any of these? Get them. You don’t need that giant trendy and almost garrish bag that is doing too much when you don’t even have a basic tote or clutch. If I see anymore of you women struggling in your jewelry stash with no basic studs I will slap you. I’m not playing this time!

Guest blogger Goldie Goldie is a Public Relations student interested in Fashion Publicity and Reporting. Find out more at www.goldlabeler.com.

What Does Your Body Have To Do With It?

Guest Blogger and Life Coach Laurie Gerber from The Handel Group chimes in. I have personally used their coaching services and can attest to fast results, not easy, but I jumped giants leaps ahead in almost every area!    Laurie life coaches clients to help them design all areas of life and one of the most popular is BODY!  Why is your body so important to success and leadership? For a few reasons:

1. When you take care of and love your body, you feel great. More energy equals more results. Plain and simple.

2. Taking care of yourself means self-respect and people can sense that. If you take great care of yourself, people will notice and admire you for it. Though we are not impressed with vanity, we are impressed with people who take care of themselves, honor themselves, and have self-discipline.

3. The body is a great place to encounter and deal with your relationship to yourself. We project a lot of issues onto our bodies and how we deal with food and exercise. Often our struggles in this area are related to our self-confidence, our past or current relationship with our parents or other family members, our upbringing, past disappointments or traumas, how we handle emotions and feelings like loneliness, fear, boredom and more. Dealing with this area to make it beautiful opens up lots of other insights that will improve your life.

4. Dealing with making your body beautiful (and remember this is about your standard, not anyone else’s) is about your integrity. Your degree of integrity is how much you can count on yourself to DO what you SAY you are going to do – like cut carbs, drink 8 glasses of water, say no to cake, etc. Body is an area which is direct cause and effect and the choice of what you put in your mouth and whether or not you exercise, is always yours. The opportunity to build the power of keeping a promise and thus your self confidence, is staggering! We recommend everyone work on this area even if they are moderately satisfied, because so much powerful ENERGY comes from being able to design and dream and then see it to fulfillment. This is the true key to happiness, satisfaction, and ultimately leadership!

–to be continued!

Laurie Gerber is President of the Private Coaching Division of The Handel Group, an international coaching company which specializes in teaching corporations, educational institutions, and individuals to take focused and powerful action in every area.  Alphanistas who sign up for a limited time get a $75 trial one-on-one coaching session and $50 OFF The Manifesting Group – Learn the Art and Science of Manifesting that starts on September 23rd, as well as Muse Weekend and Coaching Crash Course ($100 Off) and Dream Body Group ($50 off) Just use ALPHA as your code!  Only limited supply discounts!  You can also sign up for any of their other offerings, too.

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