By Guest Blogger Adoley Dian Allotey-Jordan Sometimes when you do things perfectly life doesn’t end up the way you want it to. As young girls we are taught and programmed to think the perfect ending comes with a dashing husband, kids, the perfect house and the perfect closet. As African-American women our realities don’t often [...]
Archive | July, 2009
Contest Winner! Of Macy’s Giftcard!
EbonyLolita! Avid Alphanista reader and subscriber EbonyLolita had the most entries of 15, increasing her odds of being picked out of over 200 others! We can all use a FREE gift, every now and then. Hey, EbonyLolita, enjoy! If you didn’t win, don’t worry, next contest will be VERY soon. Can anyone say SEPHORA? To [...]
Do You Want Him To Be At Peace Or Stay Home?
Mrs. Sanford clearly spoke to soon. It took me some weeks to gather my thoughts on this. Mrs. Sanford needs to let her husband, South Carolina Governor Sanford be with his love. I read those emails and every word was from a man in love. Now, I can understand Mrs. Sanford not wanting a divorce. [...]
He Said/She Said: Your Side of the Story
This one is probably one of the more crazier stories. Is it a case of DL LOVE gone wrong? Or just a woman controlled by jealousy? You figure out who won this game. Whose side are you on? Not as simple as it sounds. ________________________________ Millie Campbell, Northern NJ, 27, unemployed I just broke off [...]
My Let Go Plan: Tired of Being Single! New!
By Guest Blogger, Anastasia Simpson Hey ladies. I wanted to update you every week of my treatments, especially yesterday. But too much was going on. As I said, in my last update, “mystery” man and I are an item. We made it official last week. And nooo, I didn’t have sex with him or anything [...]
5 “Alphanista” Vacation Spots!
The below are tried and proven to get results. When you spend a little or a lot you want your money’s worth plus all the extras. You want the tan, the stories, the great hotel, and the delish food. An Alphanista travels where no other woman dares. Places that are different, mysterious, and make her [...]
POLL: Do Black Women Need To Be Re-Educated?
I was clicking through one of my new favorite blogs Feministe, because though I don’t consider myself one, it gets the oil in my engine going because we disagree on the fundamentals. I came across a discussion about a book called The Re-Education of The Female by Dante Moore. I’m all for being enlightened on [...]
Time For A Contest!
Everyone loves free stuff right? So now’s your chance to get your hands on a $25 Macy’s gift card for doing little to nothing. You can use it get something new for summer or deduct from a big purchase. Subscribers get a lot of love here at Alphanista.com. If you are a current subscriber – [...]
Weekend Rewind: A Good Man Marries By 35
Happy 4th! Enjoy this classic! ___________________________ There used to be a time where there was just a bunch of single women over 35. Now, it seems like more and more men are single over 35. At first look it may not be such a bad thing, but at a closer look, it’s just bad. I [...]
There’s More Than One Way To Get Your Independence
By Guest Blogger, Monica Smalls No matter what folks say about Tameka Foster, she managed the ultimate coup. She completely isolated a man, took over is life, got pregnant, and will be supported for the rest of her life via the unfortunate divorce. All in two years or less. Tameka has no way of making [...]
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